I see how people see it as fetishization as someone whos read yaoi for the past few years I've read some real weird shit that just makes you question so many things. But i also think this weirdness can be in any kinda thing with sex in, like how hentai can be questionable or yuri or porn. But i do see how it can be fetishization but I feel like it'...... reply
it depends on the person. if you can't understand the difference between fiction and reality to the point where fiction warps your real-world viewpoint then yes sure yaoi is harmful.
but to most people, yaoi is just a fun romance story. everyone has different reasons for liking and reading bl. just like shoujo and yuri, yaoi is always an unrealisti...... reply
tbh as long as youre not reading just bcs its gay sex then i think its alright it becomes a problem when its all about top/bottom sub/dom seme/uke dynamics i hate hearing about seme uke bcs its not really a thing and thats where the fetishization comes in 1 reply
I just want someone caring, loyal, understanding, and supportive of my choices. If my future husband doesn't want to adopt, I'm dropping him because I don't want to give birth. I want kids, but I don't want to give birth you know what I mean? After seeing how my mom gave birth to my younger sister, and how much pain she was even after giving birth,...... 1 reply
Personally as someone who reads bl I don’t consider myself a fujoshi. Mainly because I read yaoi and yuri for the gayness (as someone who is pansexual) and I’m not reading for the specific gender. It just so happens that yaoi tends to have better story lines than yuri (which is unfortunate) and yaoi is more common. Also the reason I don’t cal...... 2 reply
ik im probably going to start a fight but i'd like to hear ur thoughts. if ur just going to come in and say 'no, yaoi is / is not fetishization, period' and then not provide any reasons to your claim then wtf was the purpose of answering.
I am bisexual, but what I find attractive in Women is different of what I find attractive in men. But regardless I look for personality not than any thing
Men’s personality-
I like boys who are caring, kind, good sense of humor, honesty, being nerdy is fine to.
For example my celebrity crushes-
Dwayne Johnson, Jason Momoa, Eddie Redmayne, Ezr...... reply
My types:
1. A guy with an optimistic outlook on things. Bright, cheery, bubbly. Someone not afraid of taking risks and fun to be around, but not too crazy, such as getting into illegal things, and a person who knows their own boundaries and won't invade mine.
2. Just a guy who i can confide in. No douchebag player types, just the sweet puppy t...... 1 reply
People with high emotional intelligence. Someone who knows themselves well and strives to be a better person. They are independent, but wouldn't mind listening to someone who needs a shoulder. I'm particularly fond of people who are mysterious as well. They don't open up very easily since they prefer to handle stuff their own way but when they do, ...... 1 reply
