i don't think you should be ashamed of it, but you have to ask yourself first; maybe you made that close friend uncomfortable? Some of my closest best of friends aren't comfortable with that kind of topic and while I myself am very open to discuss stuff about sex and such, I try my best to respect them and try to not rub it in their faces so much....... reply
I also have some friends who are super judgemental with things like that, I also have friends (married friends) who still feel the need to whisper rude words in conversation lol. One male friend actually got quite upset when we were light-heartedly once, asking each other about what material(s) we use to er, that thing….eheh…..so it really depe...... reply
Oh goodness no! You should never be ashamed of who you are. Embrace it, enjoy your difference in whatever and be proud. There are going to be people who may not understand and you will have to prepare for those types of responses. But no matter how prepared you are, negative comments hurt even more so from those close to you. Keep your chin up ...... reply
I love what Mameiha said and I say no to you. But maybe you shouldn't tell it casually to the wrong people if you can't handle a backlash because, unfortunately, there are a lot of ignorant people in the world. If you can, it's great to be open. You shouldn't think that what you like is wrong or shameful and find a healthy community with similar in...... 2 reply
Are you hurting anyone with your fetish? If not, you have NOTHING to be ashamed of. Your friend is a sheltered prude. That works for her, so that's good. I've been involved with BDSM clubs and conventions for thirty years. The only thing I am ashamed of is having injured a partner accidentally when I was younger. If your partner likes to be kissed,...... 1 reply
Noooooooooooooooo never be ashamed for something that you love! If you truly like those things and they make you happy, then your friends should respect that and not put you down for the things you like. Also foreplay if very standard and vanilla compared to other kinks, so your friends are just weird and need to explore the internet a little but m...... 1 reply
Don't be ashamed. We all have them. We just don't share them with everyone cuz yknow not everyone feels comfortable hearing about it. The way she said it has everything to do with her perspective, not with yours. reply
I wouldn't be ashamed and you shouldn't to. I mean, in the end, it's something that should interest only you and your partner. If my partner would like this kinda stuff I would at least try it out (more bc I alsolike taht kinda stuff lol). reply
Well you see, I'm pretty open about my kinks and fetishes and stuff with some of my close friends but this one time I told one of my friends and she told me that "I should be ashamed of them, and never talk about them. I should NEVER ask a man to do things like that" Now your thinking "Bms or s and m" But it was just teasing, Foreplay, stuff like that. Should I be ashamed? If you SO asked you to do that, would you?
