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Should I be ashamed?
Well you see, I'm pretty open about my kinks and fetishes and stuff with some of my close friends but this one time I told one of my friends and she told me that "I should be ashamed of them, and never talk about them. I should NEVER ask a man to do things like that" Now your thinking "Bms or s and m" But it was just teasing, Foreplay, stuff like that. Should I be ashamed? If you SO asked you to do that, would you?
I wouldn't be ashamed and you shouldn't to. I mean, in the end, it's something that should interest only you and your partner. If my partner would like this kinda stuff I would at least try it out (more bc I alsolike taht kinda stuff lol). reply
This is my first time replying to a question lol but you shouldn't be ashamed. There is nothing wrong being being kinky but if someone is uncomfortable with the topic then it's best not to bring it up in front of them. Not everyone is comfortable when it comes to sexual topics, especially when it gets into hardcore and fetish stuff. It was a bit ru...... 1 reply
you dont have to because it only concerns you and your partner, but you need to understand that not all people can accept things like that, its not that its shameful or anything its just that they dont understand it or they're not that open minded and its nobody's fault, just dont talk about it to the people you know that is conservative or such or...... reply
Noooooooooooooooo never be ashamed for something that you love! If you truly like those things and they make you happy, then your friends should respect that and not put you down for the things you like. Also foreplay if very standard and vanilla compared to other kinks, so your friends are just weird and need to explore the internet a little but m...... 1 reply
Don't listen to your "friend". As long as it's not against the law, and if your partner agrees, who the fuq cares if others don't approve. There's something wrong with the friend who told you to be ashamed, lose her! And I would def try anything once or twice (if it's safe and with a partner i trust), life is too short to live like a dried up tree. 1 reply
Why should you be ashamed of wanting to do something you want that is not only completely harmless but could also strengthen your bond with your partner? The ones who should be ashamed are those who preach morality but do the exact opposite, those who are in a monogamous relationship but choose to have an affair because they aren't satisfied with t...... reply
I love what Mameiha said and I say no to you. But maybe you shouldn't tell it casually to the wrong people if you can't handle a backlash because, unfortunately, there are a lot of ignorant people in the world. If you can, it's great to be open. You shouldn't think that what you like is wrong or shameful and find a healthy community with similar in...... 2 reply
You shouldn't be ashamed. However, you shouldn't also be 'too' loud about things like that. Not everyone is open-minded to hear about those. As for your partner, you can ask him if he's game with it. If yes, then go. :D reply
I think LoreHappy put it quite well, the only thing I would add is that everyone is different, and has they're own tastes/kinks.
I personally seem to have a fancy for food-related stuff.
I think you should try explaining that everyone has they're own interests and that what she said hurt you. I think she probably didn't mean it spitefully. She was ...... reply
I don't think you have anything to be ashamed of, because everyone is different, and we all have some kind of fetish. To put it simply, it's human nature/ lust. And it's not just you , and I think your friend is too closed minded . reply
