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Should I be ashamed?
Well you see, I'm pretty open about my kinks and fetishes and stuff with some of my close friends but this one time I told one of my friends and she told me that "I should be ashamed of them, and never talk about them. I should NEVER ask a man to do things like that" Now your thinking "Bms or s and m" But it was just teasing, Foreplay, stuff like that. Should I be ashamed? If you SO asked you to do that, would you?
Just inform your partner abt it slowly, like let them know you want to spice it up ykwim?? Then start with your softer more vanilla ver of whatever your kink is if they agree and are comfortable. You don't need to force it on your s/o but you can't keep it a secret forever cuz it'd lead to a burnout fs. About your friend there, they probably just d...... reply
Well you don't have to be ashamed if you're not. Just don't talk to her about it because clearly she hates hearing about it hahahhaha. Believe me I have wayyy worse kįnks than you and internet people shame me for it. But I know I don't have to be ashamed bc I don't act on it irl and I don't even RP with real people just AI bots hahaha. Likes it's ...... 2 reply
Who tf should be ashamed of foreplay??
Your friend is obviously uneducated in sex. Sex is more than just a physical state, a state of mind. If you dont use foreplay and try to set a mood is most likely going to lead to one of the partners not being aroused or prepared for sex. So no you should never be ashamed of asking your partner to try to set ...... reply
I mean as long as BOTH of you are consenting and it doesn't involve anything illegal than why should you feel ashamed? Like it's you and your partner(s) relationship if they are okay with it than literally no one elses opinions matter but just to remember to stay safe reply
Why should you be ashamed of wanting to do something you want that is not only completely harmless but could also strengthen your bond with your partner? The ones who should be ashamed are those who preach morality but do the exact opposite, those who are in a monogamous relationship but choose to have an affair because they aren't satisfied with t...... reply
Nothing to be ashamed of. At the end of the day its only our self satisfaction. But you should be careful to whom to say it to, since not everyone is understanding and nice. reply
No. This is coming from someone who has a kink for bdsm lol being ashamed of having a fetish or kink? Never. I'm sorry but if it's something that heightens your arousal then be honest about it. When finding a SO your sex life should be something you both are open with and something you feel comfortable in. Don't be (this applies to friendship as we...... reply
- leave your friend , my close friends know my fetishes and kinks and they don't actually say anything about it . It's totally not something you should be ashamed of. S&M is hot and many peeps love it so if you don't like it shut your trap and your shit don't go bitchin' around peeps that loves it , go bye bye , and die reply
