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I don't really understand the stigma that het manga sucks and have boring plot and the FMC is usually weak and whatever. If you go on the shoujo tag and sort by popularity almost everything on the first page is generally good. You can also go on webtoon and go to the romance genre and a lot of those stuff are good (Edith, Freaking romance, scorching romance, devil no. 4, etc.).

If you try searching for some you can find good shoujo and het romance manga (Horimiya, Okobore Hime to Entaku no Kishi, Keishichou Tokuhanka 007, love so life, etc.).

I think it's okay to prefer BL over Het manga but it's just wrong to say that you prefer BL because there are no good het romance out there. You're just not trying to find good het mangas and that okay.