Shipping Real Life People

i know this might be like an exhausted topic, but in my opinion (again, OPINION - don't threaten me or anything) there are no genuine merits to the omegaverse genre. its simply glorified rape fantasies, and characters all fit into this one sex-driven role that dictates their behavior and relationships. it's weirdly predatory and almost pedophilic to me because the omegas are always like weirdly infantilized and childlike. imo it's also a way in which to completely exclude women from the universe because cis men can give birth through their asshole or whatever. in almost every omegaverse ive unfortunately read, ive always found that the romance and development of the relationship is heavily reliant on or would not exist without the "base" instinct of a dominant, lustful alpha creeping upon an innocently seductive omega. it reinforces these weird heteronormative gender roles while still somehow getting rid of women, and maybe once in a million years do i ever actually find a good story (and only ever in fanfiction too - never in original works). feel free to disagree with me, but i guess im just curious as to what draws people into this genre.