nana's Things

Im js gonna debunk?? ig, the points transphobes have recently brought up cause it's mad annoying to see them repeat the same 5 things.

"Trans women can't get pregnant so they aren't real women": That argument is not only stupid asl but also harmful to cis women too. Cis woman can also be infertile (also applies to men in the context of trans men) by using that argument you're actively pushing the idea that infertility makes cis women NOT women??? Someone's gender or sex isn't defined by their ability to reproduce, you're only dehumanizing infertile cis women by using this argument.

Toilets stuff: How are you going to guess the sex of someone just by looking at them? As far as i know I'm not looking at the private parts of everyone that goes in the same toilets as me, if something like that were to be put in place it would only put the cis women ya'll claim to defend with this argument EVEN MORE in danger. (in general all toilets should be safer and have less gaps everywhere). If a man wanted to harass women i doubt he'd bother dressing up as one to do it.

Trans people should disclose their gender identity before dates/sex: Trans people are putting themselves in danger when revealing their gender identity to someone new. They shouldn't have to reveal their gender identity on a date, because a date doesn't mean shit unless ur a fucking loser. A date doesn't mean they're gonna spend the rest of their lives with u, or have sex with u. People shouldn't have to put themselves in danger over a date with ur ass. As for sex, if a trans person has had bottom surgery then they don't have to reveal their gender identity either, a dick is a dick and a pussy is a pussy, wooho big deal. It's not assault because they aren't forcing you to do anything. If a trans person hasn't had surgery and is about to have sex with someone they will pretty much always bring it up anyway.

also guys please learn about the difference between sex and gender. Gender is a social construct while sex is SCIENCE and is also pretty fluid, no gender isn't science, no a trans man doesn't claim to be a male IT'S NOT THE SAME THING OMFGGGGJFNFJRNJ

in conclusion: open a fucking book for once in ur life instead of being a dumb bitch on a GAY SEX COMICS WEBSITE

Why is the poor woman/uke trope so common? i always found it uncomfortable but one of the things that made me feeling worse is the fact that everytime a k-drama/manwha uses this trope it's almost ALWAYS the person in the relationship which is perceived as more feminine, either being a woman or being a bottom (yes i know bottoms aren't always twinks, but even while being masculine they're still percieved as "the woman in the relationship" by a lot of people.) which maybe I'm too woke but it feels awfully misogynist and icky.

I know that this trope was used in Western media as well. Cinderella falls under that trope too, at least in my opinion, and maybe I'm not consuming enough west media to notice, but it feels way more common and popularized in korea. Is there a specific reason why poverty is so romanticized there, or just power unbalance in general?

WHAT THE HELL IS HAPPENING WHY AM I GETTING CONSTANTLY LOGGED OUT AND I HAVE TO DOUBLE LOG IN BRO MANGAGO LOCK IN

Don't yall hate those people who when you tell them something instantly say "oh no that's not true" like i once mentioned i was obsessed with an old friend and they went like "you weren't obsessed if you were you would have been worse" then proceeds to list obvious signs of obsession and like yk i get it in some context but also no i had to go see professionals because of it i know what I'm talking about LIKE??? Mf acting like they know everything it's so angering.

I really like watching movies so i wanted to know if any of you had favorite movies, or movies you have a special attachment to?

Personally my favorite movie is "Your name engraved herein" mostly because i love very sad movies and found it beautiful. I keep certain sentences from that movie in my notes because i find them very touching.