... we can’t help you much... also isn’t it kinda fetishizing mlm... like you shouldn’t ship you OWN BF with his friend... I mean when I was like 10 I shipped my friends who had crushes on each other but not like this- 1 reply
If you have any relatives tell them to take away all of your Gadgets and force you to study. When they see you use ur Gadgets add additional time to study. It's also nice to listen to music while studying so I guess that's fine. Idk it's just my idea since I also get my Gadgets confiscated when I slack off. I also love yaoi but I'm not addicted. Tr...... reply
It's not the yaoi, you're the problem gurlll, you should know your limitations and self control and especially learn to "prioritize" things
Who put yaoi no.1 on priority list? Lol you. Anyways good luck with your studies. reply
Instead of quitting abruptly, slowly reduce the amount of time you spend reading yaoi. One small goal at a time. If you read 60 stories a day, turn it to 60 stories over 2 days and so on.
As for your boyfriend, I don't know what a bsf is, so can't help you there.
I don't really believe you, but I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt. This advice...... reply
Fujos come get your trash, smh...
And if y'all's "advice" is anything besides "go see a fucking therapist", you're wrong. Not that they'd actually do that, though, since if they actually wanted "help" they would've done that in the first place and we wouldn't be here reading this bullshit. reply
Grow a thicker skin. Slap yourself in the face whenever you think of coming back to this website. Yaoi is just a bunch of 2D dudes having unrealistic sex, there are just many ways you can imagine missionary and doggy style before your brain turns into pudding.
Yes, you could be reading yaoi but what the fuck are you going to gain from it? There ar...... reply
Change your mindset I guess. Write it on your hand that the yaoi will always be there and you can just read it later. Things like showering or homework are time sensitive so you should just do it. There is no rush to read. Maybe if that mindset is too hard to get into, you should just sit down at your desk and do something. I don't know. Tidy up. ...... reply
i am no professional and i don't mean to diagnose but these could be the first signs of depression? your struggling with eating and maintaining hygiene is especially worrisome & you could be relying on yaoi as a coping mechanism, albeit a wrong and unhealthy one. now i say this because i genuinely see myself in this post (with the exception of some...... 1 reply
