NO WAIT, I forgot to add that I'm not raising any childrens, I was just curious lmao don't misunderstand.
I wanted to know because my mom often used to pull my hair or slap my arm (and her hands were made of steel or something because it hurted like hell), I was a bit scared of her but she raised me pretty well and I still love her, so I was just w...... reply
There's a very huge gap between a "spanking" and a "beating". There's also a huge difference between discipline and a parent doing it out of personal frustration, because at that point it's just flat abuse and the parent blowing off steam. I grew up in the verbal warning first then spanking next type of household. I'm totally fine. Better than the ...... 3 reply
I think it's better to give them a whooping or something to scare them a bit because sometimes words aren't enough and then sometimes the child won't stop. (I'm sure parents/guardians are going to get tired from telling the child the same thing over and over) so from experience, I learned better through consequences than just chores and other thing...... 1 reply
I believe in spanking but never a slap, hit or kick. If they are acting absolutely stupid.
otherwise I’d probably just tell them to behave or threaten no McDonald’s. reply
IDC ABOUT THEIR FEELING BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF EM. Thats how we do it in my black household (edit) GUYS THIS IS A JOKE i hated getting beat and if I did have children i wouldnt do that bad 3 reply
If you see yourself reaching for physical "punishment", and depending on their age even non-physical punishment, in any form instead of actually using your words then please never have kids. Besides the fact that corporal punishment is already proven to not work as intended, you should be at least attempting to explain what they did wrong and why i...... reply
Just flick em or something idk, but violence is never an answer
Make em do chores as one of the replies said or take away privileges or something reply
