Well it all happened in Web comics , i was looking at recommendations and i seen this one comic and it was called " 20 Twenty" (so freaking cute btw). And i wasn't really feeling it but i mean i thought it was pretty cute and stuff , but the person that got me more into it was one of my good friends. She was into yaoi like crazy so she started reco...... 1 reply
If you're not ready, don't have sex. If he's ready to have sex, don't feel pressured to have sex. Imo, he can wait until you're ready. If you want advice for when you're ready: the first time hurt so much when my cherry popped that I pushed my bf off me and we stopped (I wasn't ready anymore and he respected that). I remember there being a little b...... reply
My bestfriend is gay, and since we met I know it but the fact that he is gay was never be a problem. We share lot of our time toghether in that period ( 4 mounth ago) and in one of the film night he chose the film that was a drama CD of Itadakimas. And I still remember cleary my first thoughts "what the hell is that?!" but after the first shock mor...... 1 reply
When I was about 11 or 12, I noticed that I liked interactions/affections between male x male characters in anime (mainly digimon), more than male x female affection. When my family got the first computer with internet (I am an early 90s kid), I discovered fanart and stumbled upon BL fanart and I loved it (I still remember the first smutty fanart I...... 1 reply
Just be honest with him. 1st time isn't easy at all. And yeah u want to be good with him, but he also should be with u.
If he can understand u r not ready yet and don't want then this is a good one. If he don't, u can throw him away. That's how it works :) 1 reply
Well I actually started to know yaoi from Kpop, especially EXO :v I was a normal fans when they debut at 2012. Reading fanfict is my ninja way, until I found some good yaoi fanfict of HunHan and start to stalk them. It's unavoidable they were cute :'v Since then I became a fujo. tbc ლ(´ڡ`ლ) reply
Don't do it until you guys talk about it. Next time he brings it up have an honest conversation and voice your concerns. I haven't done it yet but i know that the first time is something nerve wracking and I can't even imagine trying to do something when I didn't want to do it in the first place Σ(っ°Д °;)っ. If he doesn't take your feeling...... reply
If you do not feel comfortable, absolutely do not let yourself be "talked into it". If he really cares about you, then he will wait until YOU are ready. He is, and that's him, but this is you. If he tries to convince you otherwise, then he cares more about his needs then yours. Don't let hm twists things around, or make you feel guilty, or make you...... reply
Talk to him about it. About how you feel, you're not comfortable yet etc. whatever. If you still feel scared, I wouldn't do it if I were you. First time is always a bit scary, but JUST A BIT if you're already comfortable with your partner.
Because you're here asking that I think you're not ready yet. TALK TO HIM. It's your first time, he should u...... reply
