It's something specific that you find sexually arousing. Like for example, some people find spanking or using whips arousing, some people find swinging arousing, some people find using food play arousing, etc. These thing care considered fetishes. reply
I think you might have the name backwards. If everyone in the story is gay or whatever, then wouldn't it be Queer Washing. It's like in the movies when they make characters who should be black or asian or whatever white, then it's called White Washing, because they're making everyone white. So to make everyone gay would be Queer Washing, unless I m...... reply
If you don't like a topic, just ignore it, that's what I do. No one is forcing you to go to the topic and read it. I don't see what the big deal is. Let people talk about what they want to talk about. If you don't like it, then just skip the topic. 2 reply
I don't think you should be ashamed, but know when the right time is. Like on your first date or first time being intimate with a person, don't suddenly tell them that you're into heavy S&M or that you enjoy yellow showers or something. Tell they eventually, maybe start out more mild and then ease into the more kinky stuff. Everyone has their own t...... reply
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