Killing stalking was my first. I didn't even know it was a yaoi back then, just that it was a popular manhua. Five years later look where I am ¯_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯ 5 reply
I honestly don't care what people are reading and yaoi is not the problem its what the consumers do and act what they desire onto real people. Its that toxic mindset that disillusioned the yaoi genre. I'm a bi guy and I have read a lot of questionable things in yaoi that i enjoy reading so, read whatever stuff you want idgaf I don't really care ab...... reply
Listen up y'all! I don't care whatever the fuck gets your rocks off. What makes you happy does not matter to me or anyone. Just.. don't objectify gay men, is that too much to ask?
Sincerely, a gay guy. 1 reply
I'm still having hard times believing that there are some bl readers who don't support gay relationship in real life.. Well I exactly don't know what fetishizing is so I can't answer that question but I guess its a bad thing. But I do support gay and lesbian relationship in real life. My country is extremely homophobic that's why I don't see many h...... reply
hi, im a gay man, in response to this; stfu. Yaoi is literally porn, why are you and your buddies concerned with fap material, sounds pretty pervy to me 3 reply
I think it's not the genre itself that fetishizes gay relationships, but some people that read BL. Some just can't set a line between fiction and reality and project their fanatsies onto other people, making the target feel uncomfortable, which is completely understandable. Hell, I, a (probably) straight, cis woman, feel icky and second hand embarr...... 1 reply
I'm also part of LGBTQ+ community and while I do read yaoi, it's basically gay porn. It's just like men watching lesbian porn. Talking about it makes people uncomfortable and that should not be a surprise.
I'm not saying that reading or watching it is wrong, but it would be wrong to deny that yaoi is indeed porn but only in comic format. "I read y...... reply
