I mean, I'm lesbian so I just skip the sex scenes. I like seeing the relationships between guys though, it's heartwarming. Plus, the plots in BL are actually really interesting when compared to other romance manga. is that fetishizing? 1 reply
Nah. The fetishizing claims were a creation by tumblr radfems to look woke while trying to control what women can or cannot read. Fetishization implies you read yaoi/bl but then act harmfully on irl gay men, which almost never happens unlike that crowd likes to say. This is why it's different from straight men watching lesbian porn, it's the irl ac...... 3 reply
