My reply to you will come off as harsh, but you need to hear this.
For someone who seems to believe that they are not like all the other horrible, prejudice, and bigoted people out there, you are a huge hypocrite. Now, we all know BL can be trash. It’s trash because of how it is written by some trash people who should not be bringing to life so...... 4 reply
well im asexual and some are a little to much but it still excites me and i know that some are not all smut there are some that are really adorable to read but i do sometimes read the one with smut scenes
i do feel a little uncomfortable with those scenes tho ╮(￣▽￣)╭ 1 reply
I'm lesbian and have a hard time consuming ANY media that is heteronormative. I've been reading yaoi for 14 years and I've always been able to separate fictional yaoi and reality.
Though my taste in bl has changed a lot over the years. If the there's an obvious girly uke I won't read it. I also take note and appreciate if the mangaka approaches pr...... 1 reply
That’s it lol we send weird pictures and talk about everything from guys to loosing our v cards and crushes LMAOO we’re also an emotional support group so if you have anything your dealings with know we’re here to talk to you
Also just looking for new Long term friends to make too We accept everyone (I’m a guy btw so don’t catch feelings, I’m in a committed relationship with sangwoo)
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As a bi dude, I don't really think yaoi or yuri is supposed to be a representation of the LGBTQ+ community, and I don't think anyone really thinks that either. I don't read BL to compare it to my relationships with guys, I just read it to fap or to see a cute couple story. Of course, fetishizing REAL LGBTQ+ people isn't epic at all, it pisses me of...... 3 reply
I'm pansexual, I'm also a switch. So reading some bls I enjoy seeing a more vulnerable side of a male. I feel like it is not as common to see such a raw vulnerability in men due to societal pressures. That being said, I know yaois can be very over the top and unrealistic.
As a switch, I really don't like how most yaois have like a very black and ...... reply
I don't like the heterosexual elements in yaoi as well as the sexual approach .... like "top" "bottom" and "uke" "seme " terms really bother me. The sex is unrealistic in yaoi and sometimes the relationship also is. (Like how a guy can fall in love of a lunatic harasser and rapist man ;;)
The best BLs would be the ones with a realistic environment...... reply
Hi so I’m a gay woman I just want to say flat out that not all yaoi yuri etc. is toxic but a lot are and I don’t mind but when I was first trying to learn about my sexuality I read a lot of yuri mangas but now looking back that really was not a good choice since now I struggle with body image and I can’t really get into relationships since al...... reply
Bi woman here and I answer this by saying that while I know BL is not the best representation especially BLs from the 1990 to 2000s, BL is an overall good genre to me that is like any other genre it’s it’s highs and lows. The problems in BL are not ONLY problems in BL, there is rape, abuse, and misogyny in every genre so it’s stupid to get on...... reply
