I hate most of the BL fans. I’m okay with reading it for fun but some fans will actually see yaoi as representation. They are really the worst kind of people. 1 reply
Living that single pan life here. I don't know I just like looking at things with intimacy, I don't really care if its bl or gl or like anything in between because I don't really mind I just want to interesting relationships. Also Idk man I know it's like annoying to say this, but like yaoi is literally porn and bl is emotional porn. Relationships...... reply
If it disgusts you so much, then what are you doing on this site, anyway? If it doesn't appeal to you, then it doesn't appeal to you, but I'd encourage you to read more BL to get a better picture and broader scope of the many different types of stories in the genre. There are plenty of people who write BL and GL, and there are a good number who are...... 2 reply
I grew up with this kinda stuff and i realised i was gay thru it (still not sure whether that is a good thing). some of the shit i read is messed up and i hope to god people dont think that real gay guys do the same things. holyyy shit i wish i could tell my younger self to not read certain titles. certain trends such as omegaverse make me feel rea...... reply
pansexual chick here. Bl and yaoi can be nice to read/watch but it fucking sucks as representation because it’s not meant to be representation. Bl and yaoi are written by mostly straight woman and are meant to be enjoyed as stories and fantasies- they’re not meant to mirror reality. When viewed as nothing but a fantasy, I don’t find anything ...... 3 reply
Usually i read bls and gls to see who I identify with and usually it is the tops but recently I have been watching some sm content and moore recently pegging and I like it a lot. I dont care about genders, being a dom is my priority and kinky shit is my jam... I don't read only bl and gl tho, I read everything honestly 1 reply
fujos like to consume media portraying harmful and false stereotypes for actual living gay men and the refuse to educate themselves when people call them out for it. what they want to feed their gross delusions and fantasies that they see in bl, they think relationships of gay men are always beautiful because that's what they see being portrayed in...... 1 reply
i don't really like the noncon aspects of it (it's called boys love not boys rape), but sometimes you can find the good bls that have character arcs and development, and actual plot outside the main couple. that's honestly what got me into bl, because i was searching for representation of the community, but unfortunately there's just a lot of gross...... reply
I fear spiders like A LOT (not to a point to be traumatized by them) but i recently stumbled onto this Youtuber that owns all sorts of reptiles and spiders, and now i really would like to try owning a tarantula in the future, i guess it’s their eyes, beautiful colors and furr that makes them cute to me (▰˘◡˘▰) my mum is terrified by the i...... reply
the question specifically asks for heterosexuals to not answer because it DOESN'T concern you. why the fuck do yall straight people like inserting yourselves in narratives your opinions aren't needed? yall closeted homosexuals or what? 5 reply
