Hey! My name is Ellie (obviously female). I'm from Germany (I'm ¼ Polish but who cares lol). My fav genres are shonen ai (pls don't hit me bc it's not yaoi), horror, supernatural, splatter and drama. I feel weird bc I kinda like reading BDSM too. But I'm mostly fine with everything ...if it's interesting. I like the art in manhwa more than in mang...... reply
I'm Seren, female. i'm from romania but i live in england. I don't have one favorite genre, i think that whether we are talkin about manga/mahwa or anime, it has to be that lil 'something' to make me read and watch that piece of art. Buuut i ended up here by searching 'wdtfs' (which i started reading by accident) and now i'm into yuri as well. sort...... 3 reply
Hmm well, that depends on how you would define 'cheating.' Some would consider just hanging out with the opposite sex as cheating or acting overly familiar. I supposed it wouldn't count as cheating unless there are feelings involved. If my partner had sex with someone else I don't think it'd be considered cheating since it was just physical. ╮(�...... 4 reply
I think the reason why cheating hurts the most is the fact that it wasn't a "mistake" as most people claim it to be but simply a choice. People chose to betray the trust you have given them whether it was "in the heat of the moment" or "I was drunk" they chose to lose valuable time they could've spent with you to spend with another person. Such a h...... reply
Cheating happens when there's a "breach of contract" between people in a relationship. It's horrible, it's not something that "can't be helped". It's not something like "I didn't mean to do it" either. Some people cheat inadvertently and I think they're one of the scums of the earth--probably just a step below corrupt politicians.
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I avoid monogamy, and so far all of my relationship have been open. I have trouble with self-hatred & self-destructive urges; if I were in a closed relationship, I could see those manifesting as cheating. "Some things you'll do just to see how bad they'll make you feel."
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I don't think I would cheat, I would prefer to end things with one person in good terms and start with the other one, it's not fair to fool someone.
I haven't cheat before
Yes, they have cheated on me, but it was a dumb relationship, like it was a lie so it really didn't matter that much. 1 reply
