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Love confession [Answer]
Orappleton
02 10,2020
oh shes straight   reply
02 10,2020
Cestelle
02 10,2020
That you find this site's... uh, "community" to be "enjoyable" rather than "wildly problematic" as it pertains to yaoi/bl certainly isn't helping your case. And if you think yaoi is "well-paced" you desperately need to read literally anything else. Yaoi is a lot of things, but "well-paced" is definitely not one of them.   reply
02 10,2020
leo
02 10,2020
As a gay man I can tell you that's it's usually pretty obvious when someone is fetishizing. I don't usually have a problem with people of any gender reading gay material so long as it's not done with the desire to fulfil a sexual/romantic fantasy. However, yaoi is made primarily for women by women which IS a problem. Women (even gay) do not know a......   1 reply
02 10,2020
Bella 02 10,2020
It seems u r a girl. So i ll answer this: u can fet.gays in bl, yaoi. But, if u see it in reality, u may be disappointed. Cuz gays may behave as girls, and also beautiful sex between 2 guys (which u watch in yaoi) in reality ..... Different. In real life u won't ever seen such sexy bottom, as in yaoi. Such bottoms barely exist. Well, if u want to......   reply
02 10,2020
Love confession [Answer]
Gin-san's Parfait
02 10,2020
I never confess so can't help much But I tried a few years ago, I gave a boy I liked at the time chocolate on valentine (secretly) and ended up grabbing his uniform collar (not related to the choco but guess what, we never talked anymore) Three years ago I half-became a stalker (he had a girlfriend and was in a different school but the school ......   reply
02 10,2020
Taku~ 02 10,2020
bro we have this question 10 times a week istg-- just go see the other questions like this for your answer.   1 reply
02 10,2020
i swear i see this exact topic at least fifteen times a week   reply
02 10,2020
stan bts 02 10,2020
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02 10,2020
does being a straight fujoshi mean you fetishize gay couples? i love reading yaoi and BL because the stories are funny, emotional, and well-paced. I won't not read a webtoon or manhwa if it's not BL, but i generally prefer reading BL not just because of the stories but also because the tiktok, instagram and mangago communities are so enjoyable and funny to be a part of. I really do find the concept of fetishizing anyone for anything is absolutely disgusting, so I really want to disassociate myself from it as much as possible and I don't wanna do it even mistakenly.

I want to know whether the mere coexistence of my sexuality and my love for reading yaoi/BL deem me as fetishizing gay couples or a specific action or belief? everyone seems to have a different answer

also i wanna note that i NEVER ship two people who are straight in a gay couple (for example zuko and sokka from avatar) and/or deem a gay couple as actually straight or just "best friends" (yuri and victor from yuri on ice)
02 10,2020
Love confession [Question]
gae
02 10,2020
Tell me how your love confession went. Love’s been bothering me these days and so I got curious about how your love confessions went ‘cause I’m kinda planning to uh
02 10,2020

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