I would say it all depends on when you feel really and truly ready, that means without any peer pressure from friends, boy/girlfriend. When you're mentally ready to handle whatever may come your way and also the fact that the first person you lost your virginity to you may regret it/them. As someone said be mindful of the consequences of unprotecte...... reply
To me vanilla sex is the sweet gentle kind, what people would consider 'normal' sex. It's not rough but generally love making without the extra stuff.
I'm into female domination, and I'm also a bit of a sadist so seeing my partner cry in a bit of pain or extreme pleasure is a huge turn on. My biggest kink currently is having my partner call me Da...... 3 reply
Vanilla sex to me is considered just regular standard sex, the in out.. except lesbians standard is eating out. No experimenting and just soft and gentle.
Omg idk where to begin, I have too many kinks. I do have a fantasy I have which is be tied up, choked and spanked by 2 guys while they DP me I can only dream they make a mess of me. Btw I have...... 3 reply
seriously. hahaha. i'm so curious about this because of uke in yaoi. the emotions or the feeling they have when someone finger or xxxx put on their ass, the face they make it so erotic and look so enjoyable that it give me urge to try it on. so i tried it one time it's so hard to insert finger in ass. i learned that day that i want to be the one pu...... reply
I remember as a child I absolutely loved climbing the poles to the swing set and sliding down them; ummmm.
I didn't rightfully know what that sensation was, just knew I wanted to climb that pole again. reply
I agree with you that vanilla tends to be more gentler and plain to the point where your comfortable. Though for personally I consider it to be like the basic building block. Where are slowly possibly going to transition to something kinky whether its trying new positions,hair pulling, playing with toys etc. reply
For me 'vanilla' means slow, meaningful lovemaking without any Major kinks and acrobatics :D Just fuck around passionately and enjoying being together with someone, feeling the other body. It's gentler sex with lots of gentle kissing.
Non-vanilla I would consider more frantic, more forceful with kinky things involved. Hard kissing, grabbing, moving...... reply
