its not weird at all. js take your time with things and it will eventually come to you. dont rush or force it. i got my first rs when i was 16, and it wasn’t the best. i was too mentally unstable and insecure that i dragged down my partner with me as well. everyone is different. dont worry about the people around you and focus on yourself reply
These same few people arguing about fujos, fetishizing, homophones, fujophobia(?), this gender that, misogynism, etc etc gives me headaches
Keep your fiction and real life apart,
Read whatever u want in peace. reply
I'm 24 and in my lifetime, I had multiple past relationships that I wish didn't happen. And a few which i regret I didn't fight for.
You always, and I mean always have to be able to love and accept who u r. Dont bow down to the stereotypical status quo. Having more/less experience in romance does not define who you are as a person..
If you think...... reply
They're ok. I don't care. We don't read the same genres HAHAAHA. I'm into Yuri so I can't hate on them bc I understand HAHAHAHA ( ̄∇ ̄").
Non BoyGirl relationships just hit different in fiction ya know? I just prefer dynamics between girls more appealing.
I did hear some fans can be extreme but hey life is short. It's great they're passiona...... reply
I like her research in the video on this topic, it just gets you thinking no matter which side you’re on.
https://youtu.be/wE6uVkFjkMM?si=pODkUaAUfbczhVkr
Personally I’d like to believe that as the internet has aged people’s morals have also changed. Wether or not people consider themselves to be a fugoshi or above one, doesn’t quite matte...... reply
I like reading bl alot. tbh I like it more than the hetero couples but its pretty weird to go out and then ship two men irl and then call yourself a fujoshi...like its really weird..and then they act like that's cute. dude..no it's not that's straight up harassment..and when someone calls them out they call you homophobic. If i was homophobic i wou...... reply
My opinions are the same as it always has been. Being so porn addicted that you need to label yourself associating with that porn genre is just straight up weird. Fujoshis be like I don't care about real gay people I only like fictional men and then turn around and ship kpop idols together. I don't care about normal BL readers tho. 1 reply