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Not Having A Boyfriend

Romanceisdead69
11 07,2020
When you as a person are whole, happy and showing people that you are happy being you (even with shyness) - that will attract the right person. I recommend this lady to EVERYONE because she is very helpful. YouTube Marisa Peer and learn confidence building techniques - do not waste your time getting hung up on "wanting" and thinking "I'll be hap......   reply
11 07,2020
Latinaaaa 11 07,2020
I feel like you should calm down and be you! Or if you think their cute tell them to at least get a little bit off your chest. Go slow and see from there where it goes. Don’t go telling them you like them the first time you see them so you won’t probably get rejected and also ask people who are dating people and have a lot of experience for adv......   reply
11 07,2020
No boyfriend for 19 yrs in my life. It just sucks. Well, there were some people who'd be interested in me, but I just push them away. Truth is I am a typical asian girl and I am not good at expressing myself, therefore I am 'a shy girl'. I am junior in an university this year and I really want to have a boyfriend because I see that as an opportunity to open myself to males. When I see someone who is attractive and they talk to me, I lose my ability to talk and acts the opposite way I want. I dont think of it as a very critical problem, but still I really want to change. Any advice? Haha ( ̄ε(# ̄)Σ
11 07,2020
Yes, EXTREMELY weird! Everyone should know that the law CLEARLY states that you must have had at least one lover before the age of 12. As quite the player myself   1 reply
11 07,2020
I’d say the whole fetishizing gay men is a think I’ve seen a lot on the internet about people talking about it but I’ve honestly never seenit in real life. I think the difference is how much lgbtq représentation you get in your life. I mean if you get enough lgbtq representation irl then well you have a solid wall against what’s fiction an......   1 reply
11 07,2020
Totally agree. This is objectifying gay men, and isn't healthy. This reminds me of the early 2000's when it was completely normal to fetishize lesbian women, and was even encouraged. I remember my cousin (being around 6 at the time) coming up to me and telling me he wanted to date a lesbian woman because then he'd get 2 women instead of 1. But now ......   2 reply
11 07,2020
i think there’s a fine line in fetishizing m|m and gay ppl and normalizing m|m relationship. honestly, as a fujoshi i don’t think liking yaoi is a bad thing but it gets bad when ppl cross a boundary and start a whole yaoi/gay cult. but most ppl just perceive ppl who read yaoi as “fetishizing gay men” which makes it really hard for yaoi to g......   1 reply
11 07,2020
I understand what you are saying and it is a serious concern considering how fetishizing gay people (gays, lesbians and others alike) is gaining popularity which is further reflected in literary works and on celluloid. I noticed this for the first time while watching Thai BL and Thai BL novels. A person's sexuality is made an integral part of their......   reply
11 07,2020
Not really adding anything to the topic at hand but I definitely agree to what you said. It’s very disrespectful to stereotype people   reply
11 07,2020
So now I’m seeing that a few people are fetishizing gay men now. I didn’t even know this was a thing yet until I started to see questions talking about this situation. So, this is just my opinion, so you shouldn’t get into a fight with me trying to prove me your opinion is better, but I believe fetishizing gay men for being gay is awful. I can’t explain it well, but I really dislike it.

And I hate it when those types of people pull out the “I like BL/Yaoi” because that doesn’t even prove anything. Gay men should be seen as people, not as men being seen as gay. This type of logic is, excuse me for my language, but it’s fucked up. Just by using the “I like BL/Yaoi” card, it proves that you might possibly fetishize gay men. And if you do, why?!

Gay men are people, not tools. Heck, straight people are getting hated on for basically just being straight, like what’s wrong with you all!? Accept someone for being themselves, not how they are seen on some sort of manga/Manhwa or whatever. That’s stereotyping people. Just like how now people are starting to stereotype fujoshi’s/fudanshi’s or anyone in general for liking Yaoi/BL.

Anyways, that’s all I’m saying. Don’t wanna drag this on for too long or else this will get boring.
11 07,2020

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