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Not Having A Boyfriend

I’d say the whole fetishizing gay men is a think I’ve seen a lot on the internet about people talking about it but I’ve honestly never seenit in real life. I think the difference is how much lgbtq représentation you get in your life. I mean if you get enough lgbtq representation irl then well you have a solid wall against what’s fiction an......   1 reply
11 07,2020
i think there’s a fine line in fetishizing m|m and gay ppl and normalizing m|m relationship. honestly, as a fujoshi i don’t think liking yaoi is a bad thing but it gets bad when ppl cross a boundary and start a whole yaoi/gay cult. but most ppl just perceive ppl who read yaoi as “fetishizing gay men” which makes it really hard for yaoi to g......   1 reply
11 07,2020
I understand what you are saying and it is a serious concern considering how fetishizing gay people (gays, lesbians and others alike) is gaining popularity which is further reflected in literary works and on celluloid. I noticed this for the first time while watching Thai BL and Thai BL novels. A person's sexuality is made an integral part of their......   reply
11 07,2020
Not really adding anything to the topic at hand but I definitely agree to what you said. It’s very disrespectful to stereotype people   reply
11 07,2020
So now I’m seeing that a few people are fetishizing gay men now. I didn’t even know this was a thing yet until I started to see questions talking about this situation. So, this is just my opinion, so you shouldn’t get into a fight with me trying to prove me your opinion is better, but I believe fetishizing gay men for being gay is awful. I can’t explain it well, but I really dislike it.

And I hate it when those types of people pull out the “I like BL/Yaoi” because that doesn’t even prove anything. Gay men should be seen as people, not as men being seen as gay. This type of logic is, excuse me for my language, but it’s fucked up. Just by using the “I like BL/Yaoi” card, it proves that you might possibly fetishize gay men. And if you do, why?!

Gay men are people, not tools. Heck, straight people are getting hated on for basically just being straight, like what’s wrong with you all!? Accept someone for being themselves, not how they are seen on some sort of manga/Manhwa or whatever. That’s stereotyping people. Just like how now people are starting to stereotype fujoshi’s/fudanshi’s or anyone in general for liking Yaoi/BL.

Anyways, that’s all I’m saying. Don’t wanna drag this on for too long or else this will get boring.
11 07,2020
Never had one.. [Experience]
Rinuka
11 07,2020
Well, I never had a boyfriend. Yes, i do feel lonely sometimes...but, yo! Atleast i have freedom to read yaoi and do as i please ️   reply
11 07,2020
Complete freedom to splurge on all the snack and drinks at the supermarket and then crash onto bed at home while watching steamy yaoi/BL scenes. (๑>◡   reply
11 07,2020
ma friend have a boyfriend now and she kept making fun of me being single.   reply
11 07,2020
23 yo virgin here. There is no shame about being a virgin. People won't give you weird looks if they know either. Personally, I'm not in a hurry to lose my virginity, so I'm waiting to get a boyfriend. Being a virgin doesn't change anything in my life and I'm pretty open about it with my friends. Nobody cares. If I wanted to lose my virginity to ......   reply
11 07,2020
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Vio 11 07,2020
Why does he have to be the one to decide whether or not to break up? She doesn’t need his consent, if she wants to leave then she LEAVES HIS ASS. his opinion doesn’t matter in this situation. And i know it might be a hard move for her to be straight up cold or mean, but the fact that he gets angry and try to turn up on her whenever she brings t......   1 reply
11 07,2020

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