Not having to worry about hurting the other person by being too honest or too anything and not having to worry about the pressure on keeping the other person happy but this mostly depends on the person you are in a relationship with and your personality. ╮(￣▽￣)╭ reply
Not feeling scripted. I still have the tsundere effect when I first start to like someone, and I don't like that mix of being mean to them on instinct and feeling like I should be apologising all the time. I start to doubt the way I conduct myself, get too self conscious about my appearance, worried I'm saying too much... I've seen a lot of these c...... 1 reply
The greatest perk about being single for me has to be that I don't feel obligated to spend time with them when I'd rather chill by myself. Not worrying about how the other person feels or if I'm being too clingy or too distant or too whatever-the-frick-quality-the-person-i'm-dating-doesn't-like. It's very freeing to not have to worry too much about...... reply
The being nervous in public situation's is a different beast all together so I'm going to put that aside and focus on the whole self esteem thing. I find one of the biggest mistakes people make is getting into relationships thinking that a relationship is about receiving validation and worth from someone else (aka your significant other). No matter...... reply
Having time to yourself, not being responsible or have any more worries about your partner or lover, spending less money, being free to admire other people without having guilt, not having any worries that the other partner is cheating, having less people butt into your relationship and stop asking personal question, and being able to hang out wth ...... reply
I'd say there's no fixing it. You'll never get rid of it, the nagging corrosive voice will aaaalways be there. It does get better; you can train your "rational" mind to overcome shyness so you can get what you want buy first you need to know what it is that you WANT AND NEED, that way you can start screening your actions by asking yourself "is doin...... reply
No drama, no need to worry about hurting the other person and peace of mind. I have a busy life and if you add caring for another person to that, I'll be more tired than I already am. reply
Uninterrupted alone time. My last boyfriend didn't understand I'm the type of person who needs to get away and spend a few minutes alone to relax. It annoyed the frick outta me whenever I tried to get away and he'd be right there a second later, trying to guilt me into spending more time with him. Excuse you, we spent most of the day together, can'...... 2 reply
This relates to me alot. I also think my boyfriend is too out of my league. How did i accept the fact that he was my bf ? I convinced myself that the relationship was just a means for him to experience dating because he never dated before . So for the past 4 months i say in my heart that he truly doesnt love me and always prepare myself for a break...... 1 reply
