Let me tell you , I had this crush on this boy in our class.
He was a kind of good guy in company of bad ones, whatever I was a prefect at school in last year of our school so I managed to confess to him (before like I already told everyone I have crush on him and he actually knew) so we tried to go out, but he wasn't completely ready to date. So e...... reply
Lmao don't worry it's normal to be turned on by people or people having sex (orientation or sex/gender doesn't matter). It only becomes a problem when you become extremely obsessed with it that it affects those around you negatively (like an addiction almost). reply
I guess? But the fetishization of lesbians by girls prolly looks like "omg I wish a was a lesbian, it's so much easier than having to date shitty men" or smth? just the idealization of the lesbian lifestyle while confidently being a straight woman, I guess. also, for your situation, you can be sexually but not romantically attracted to women (and v...... reply
okay so I hope I don’t get meme’d on becoz I’m genuinely asking if girls are able to fetishize lesbians? I usually see that girls are fetishizing over gays.. which leads me to another problem. Idk if I’m bi or not but girls turn me on but I haven’t been romantically attracted to a girl and idk if that’s considered fetishizing or smthn idk lol I just had a crisis mid-way during classes
All I can really tell you is to not expect the best or worst. Don't base off real relationships off of the romance manga you read. Confess to your crush (before it is too late), let things go by naturally, and good luck. 1 reply
There are no set rules for dating. Everyone does it in their own way. You shouldn't worry about what a 'perfect' date is, or reenact some romance novels. You should just enjoy the time you can share with your lover, getting to know each other better, doing stuff you're both comfortable with, having fun in your own ways. Of course, in the start it i...... reply
