I guess? But the fetishization of lesbians by girls prolly looks like "omg I wish a was a lesbian, it's so much easier than having to date shitty men" or smth? just the idealization of the lesbian lifestyle while confidently being a straight woman, I guess. also, for your situation, you can be sexually but not romantically attracted to women (and v...... reply
okay so I hope I don’t get meme’d on becoz I’m genuinely asking if girls are able to fetishize lesbians? I usually see that girls are fetishizing over gays.. which leads me to another problem. Idk if I’m bi or not but girls turn me on but I haven’t been romantically attracted to a girl and idk if that’s considered fetishizing or smthn idk lol I just had a crisis mid-way during classes
All I can really tell you is to not expect the best or worst. Don't base off real relationships off of the romance manga you read. Confess to your crush (before it is too late), let things go by naturally, and good luck. 1 reply
There are no set rules for dating. Everyone does it in their own way. You shouldn't worry about what a 'perfect' date is, or reenact some romance novels. You should just enjoy the time you can share with your lover, getting to know each other better, doing stuff you're both comfortable with, having fun in your own ways. Of course, in the start it i...... reply
........ welllllll if you are in middle school right now or a freshman in high school I don't think i can give the best advice because a lot of relationships doesn't last that long its rare if it did but during those times girls usually fall in love to deeply and if you guys break up eventually it will hurt them a lot since they are still young but...... 2 reply
I feel like when you first start out dating it's meant to be kind of awkward especially if it's the first person you've ever dated and I hope if they actually say yes and they like you too they'll understand that awkwardness but if you guys actually get along it'll eventually flow smoothly and that awkwardness won't be there anymore :) then there a...... 1 reply
