help lol

okay so I hope I don’t get meme’d on becoz I’m genuinely asking if girls are able to fetishize lesbians? I usually see that girls are fetishizing over gays.. which leads me to another problem. Idk if I’m bi or not but girls turn me on but I haven’t been romantically attracted to a girl and idk if that’s considered fetishizing or smthn idk lol I just had a crisis mid-way during classes