Well I’ve never really had a crush and genuinely never had romantic feelings for someone for a long time. Whenever a guy friend would show interest in me I would just brush it off. Till this day I still don’t like anyone plus it’s a little hard for me to trust just anyone because of my trauma of being sexual harassed so I’m always on guard...... reply
low self confidence and laziness - cuz relationships take work and angst and time. also...feel inferior when it comes to sex; would love to have it but also idk what to do or whatever reply
Because im a closeted lesbian in an extremely catholic community. My mom is really accepting but my dad is suuuper conservative and so is the rest of my family. Also i'm focusing on graduating rn so i don't think im in a place to really consider a relationship atm. reply
Well it's my self confidence and all that but I am soo damn scared of being in a relationship. I want to be in one where I am loved and treated as myself but I am so scared because everyone has scars right what if I get treated as a replacement or something. Last time I fell in love was in school with my teacher he treated me pretty well and helpe...... reply
A lot of reasons sadly. My mental health is pretty bad. Anxiety,panic attacks, overthinking (an extremely unhealthy amount), antisocial, binge eating disorder, low confidence and self-esteem, overly sensitive (to the point that I have panic attacks after being told off), constant mental breakdowns in class and constantly apologizing makes people an...... 2 reply
Im single bc i make jokes out of EVERYTHING. Like no-one takes me seriously
Me: i like u
Them: i like u too
me: eww why u can do better than me
Them:
Me:
Them:
Me: lol 5 reply
For me the reason I'm still single is because of my social anxiety and my tendency to overthink and over analyze everything the person I'm dating or potential crush is doing or saying. If they say I'm the most beautiful woman they have ever seen for example I automatically think their lieing and a voice in my head starts to say to me that they are ...... reply
I'm grey-romantic like I can fall in love sometimes but dating is "hard", like it takes time and it feels complicated.
love is a complicated feeling for me to grasp.
also if I date and break up i might be like whatever because i didn't get time to fall in love.
I could be in a casual relation but if one of us catches feelings it feels unfair (bu...... 2 reply
Honestly, all of these reasons and more. The reason I generally give, and that comes to my mind first, is "it's not like anyone would like me in the first place". I suppose since I can't really think of any particularly positive aspects of myself, I can't imagine anyone levelheaded would ever want to be in a relationship with me. Though I still lac...... reply
