First let's get this out of the way: send this essay to her. Make her read it. Sit down and talk to her, heart to heart. Think about it yourself. Only you can make the best sound judgement, because a stranger on mangago will not be able to understand best what your relationship is like, and, most importantly, how YOU feel.
OK, from what I can tell...... reply
In my honest opinion, if she doesn’t respect your feelings, opinions and wishes, I don’t think she’s the right one for you. Especially when it comes to the serious topic of moving in together. That’s a huge step in relationships, and the fact that she’s trying to push moving in together only 6 months - 1 year of dating while completely ig...... 1 reply
Instead of me just saying whether or not you should break up with her, i think there's a couple of things for you to consider before you actually make a decision. First, are you happy in the relationship? Consider whether all of the stress and downs in the relationship is worth it for you to continue to look forward to the ups in the future. Second...... 1 reply
because of overbearing parents that have made me painfully shy when it comes to intimacy. past trauma with a close platonic/crush relationship that has made me pessimistic and more reserved when it comes to sharing my interests/feelings/life etc. now we add a dash of self confidence issues and the fact that no one likes me *chefs kiss*
sorta suck...... reply
Honest answer: if you're only 4 months in and you are doubting your compatibility with this person - which is what all this boils down to basically - then it isn't going to work. 2 reply
I don't want a relationship because I hate the way I act around guys I like, I become so submissive and lose so much of my personality. I really like the way I am when I'm alone and my self confidence is through the roof, but when I'm with someone else I get insecure about everything. reply
