Being single is nice because you don't have to think about whether the other is being faithful or not, you worry/stress less, you can look like a hobo everyday if you want to, and you don't have to shave!
Being without a relationship gives one plenty of time to think about themselves, because before anything else, YOU are FIRST.
•Maybe you feel...... reply
I am single by choice. I just dont want my heart to fall inlove for someone who cant even take care of their own heart and end up breaking mine. My heart and mind has enough mental breakdown to deal with and I think I'm falling again and I hope its for the right person. reply
Saying hi to those ,who are in post-breakup depression and such.
But detaching this period , when you trying to get through an EMOtional disaster ( that i dont consider as "being single" just bc it's different), from general "singleness " , i can say one thing for sure : being in relationship - means being brave and mb reckless. That means not bei...... reply
Ah, honestly? I felt pretty desperate while single.
As in, back when I had never had a boyfriend, I was pretty chill and didn't worry about dating at all, but after I got my ex, I got suuuuuuuuper depressive and needed lots of help from family and friends to get up, and still felt quite bad and kept on loving him for some good 18 months, it was on...... reply
I think this is more of an issue when you live alone and have no hobbies to keep you busy. I live with my family and have other family come visit often. I don't really get lonely with them around, even if everyone has a SO. Not to mention my 5 cats and 2 dogs. Like other people have said, I just don't think about it. It's not a priority in my life....... reply
I do want to try dating, but I'm not really social, don't know many guys and I've never even had a crush.....so I basically dig deep into mangaland reply
I don't know if maybe I'm just too simple minded, but I've never really worried about dating. If I like someone I just say it 'Cause I think it's unfair to the other part when you don't tell the person how you feel and it's troblesome for myself. If I get rejected, I don't really mind. Let's just try again, headuplikemybutt. But yes, sometimes I ge...... reply
Let me start from the beginning. The summer before I was a freshman in High School I started talking to this guy on MySpace. I'm 22 so a lot of you might not know about that. It was like an old Facebook mixed with Tumblr. Anyways, I talked to him because I was hurt. My ex had just broken up with me to go out with this girl and that guy was friends ...... reply
I've never dated before, so I don't actually have that "black hole"-
wait I kinda do actually, after reading all the lovey-dovey mangas I get a bit lonely. But it doesn't matter when I'm with my friends. My friends fill that black hole and I'm happy and content.
And drinking is a no-go for me, I get even more touchy-feely and lonely after drinki...... 2 reply
getting drunk doesn't count? that's not fair but ok
i get lonely but then i hang out with people and that reminds me people are terrible and being alone is great
also fiction. reading and writing it.
...while drinking reply
