what a load of crap. u dont get to decide abt anyones preference and sexuality. and fyi, "being gay" is not a choice. u think we just woke up and suddenly decided, hey im going to be gay today :D 2 reply
“I cannot count the number of times I’ve been told not to be too nice to people because it will hurt me. After giving this much thought, my response is simple. When I’m too nice because I have a hidden purpose, others have the right to hurt me, because people are not made to be used but to be loved and respected. When I’m nice for the sake ...... reply
“Don’t compare your actual self to a hypothetical self. Don’t drown in a sea of `what if´s. Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you, in parallel universes, where you made different decisions. The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself. `Comparison is the thief of joy,´ said Theodo...... 2 reply
Not relevant babe, no one else is gonna do it. You can't do a mediocre job if you're the only one doing it.
"What if someone else does it better later?"
Good! Technically the Wright brothers built the worst airplanes in the world. If you do it first, you do it worst, and history will thank you for it. reply
The first step towards confidence is not being afraid to be ugly.
Once you get over the fear of being unattractive and stop equating beauty with other good things in life, like friends, love and happiness, it's a lot easier to love being yourself unconditionally.
Your job is not to sit around and be pretty and easy on everyone else's eyes.
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Like every time you trip and fall, instead of saying "I'm just a disaster human," say "I'm the epitome of grace and beauty."
Or like, when you draw a picture you're not 100% happy with, instead of saying "my art is trash," say something like "you know, I think it's time for we replace the Mona Lisa."
When you do that you get to make a joke, but y...... 2 reply
Your purpose in life is not to love yourself but to love *being* yourself.
If your goal is to love yourself, then your focus is directed inward toward yourself, and you end up constantly watching yourself from the outside, disconnected, trying to summon the "correct" feelings towards yourself or fashion yourself into something you can approve of.
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