Give Life Advice

Aight so basically I’m in a group of 3 friends, and we like talking bout ourselves a lot. So we pretty damn open about deep stuff like lgbtq or like gender. Also we all like anime lol.

So I kinda need advice cause uh one of my friends.... said they identified as a trap. My other friends are rly supportive about him being... a trap. I’m pretty damn confused and I don’t know what to do. Basically this was the text-

“I don't know how to put this but... ||I am officially a trap, this is not a joke, I really felt like I needed to tell someone, I still want people to think I'm a boy, however, I want the people I trust to know I am actually a trap, I don't identify as a girl, I identify as a trap, hopefully you guys will support me, I'm going through alot||“

So..... I’m confused what to do and I’m just lookin for advice.

If you think I shouldn’t use mangago as therepy ( this ain’t therepy but I know peopl will say crap like this) then don’t reply. I just don’t have anywhere else to ask >…>

Are you the type of person who your friends thought of a fun person who RARELY gets sad and would often come to you to rant and ask advice when in reality, there are times when you can't handle everything at once?
WELL I GOT NEWS FOR YOU
I am like that as well HAHA!
Tbh sometimes find myself really sad but I can't even cry about it. Dry tears I'm telling ya! I'm not that type to be called emotionless but when it comes to being sad for myself, I couldn't really bother to burden other people with how I feel. But the weight of everything really pulls me down and sometimes I overthink whether itll be better to be someone who is more open on beings sad than being the "class clown" all the time...
they often tell me that I'm strong from putting up from a problem I experience when irl I ugly cry by myself and get over it lol.

Do you have times like this as well?
How do you cope with problems quickly?