Some people say that you must always respect your elders regardless of they are right or wrong because they have more experiences compared to you while some say (especially the younger generations) that there are times when you have to speak up and stand up for yourself. Which side are you and why? 2 reply
It's your choice, no one can really force u to marry someone and make babies lol, but its your life and you should live it the way you want to bring you happiness reply
Simply be yourself
If someone only cares about the looks, they would not really care about feelings and by being with them ,they might not exactly like u or u would not like them.
However, it's also good to take chances with someone too. If you don't take your first chance, there may not be a second.
First impressions are really important, espe...... reply
Like many people pointed out already, don't rush to fall in love. Some other advice... don't ever idolize anyone too much. Even someone you love with all your heart is human at the end of the day and has flaws. Also, don't think that someone who is very similar to you is automatically the best match for you. It's okay to fall in love with someone w...... reply
Technically, it'd be more accurate to say I turned them gay... Not in the bad way. See, I became a fujoshi because I'm a seme at heart. I'm not trans, I'm just a girl who, through a strange series of circumstances, found out she liked being the pitcher even in her straight relationships (I'm bi). So, in the end, most of the guys who were compatible...... 1 reply
I can't really give you a great advice without fully understanding the situation and your friend but i will give it a shot. One of the advice i can give you is be there for her. Listen to her problems. You don't have to say the right and perfect thing or even know what to say, just make sure she knows you are there for her even if you don't fully u...... 1 reply
To be honest, I've experienced the same thing. I know I am still a bit far from proper age for marriage but people have started asking about boyfriends (even though I've been dropping hints about my questioning ass) and whenever I tell my friends or family that I would prefer to have pets over children and possibly not marry anyone they would lect...... 1 reply
I have this one friend who is depressed and honestly I don't really know what to say whenever she talks to me about it. The best way is to just be a listener but when you're chatting with her it's kind of hard to not give a response, isn't it? Tried telling her she should seek professional help but her mom is kind of traditional and doesn't believe that depression is a mental illness.
She told be that lately she's feeling disconnected to some people but I know for the fact that one of the factors is her exclusive group of friends that are really possessive. I want her to know that she is still very much loved and appreciated, and I want her to kind of 'loosen up' with her exclusive group but I don't know how. Can anyone help me?
