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Would you be able to fall in love with a disabled person?
Yeah I know people might be like wtf and all. Just to clear things out, I don't have anything against them and I don't discriminate them or something like that. I was just wondering if I would be able to fall in love with a disabled person knowing all the difficulties. I want some true feelings, answer with your heart not your mind. (though I don't even know if someone would answer)
Honestly? I would like to be able say "yes of course". But I really don't know. I think that I'm really tolerant person and I never try to judge others by how they look or if they are ill or something.
It's just a situation where you really don't know, what would you do until you find yourself in the exact situation. reply
Fall in love?? Quite a weird question. It's said that the heart does not choose who we fall in love with but knowing that much we can easily conclude that a person falls in love with personality and then looks, so if the disabled person is not a d*ck then the answer is yes. reply
That depends on the disability? I wouldn't fall in love with a person with a inferior mental capability to me. But I could fall in love with someone who is blind, crippled etc. As long as I find them attractive, I like their personality and they are compatible with me, why not? reply
Yeah.
I'm not physically disabled but I do have a personality disorder.
When it comes to friends AND lovers, I don't love people for their appearance or attractiveness, because that's too shallow and unsustainable. I love people for their character. If the person I love happened to be disabled, I wouldn't care. I mean think about it—they've gone ...... reply
I thought I would comment on this because I currently work at a nursing home carrying out physical and occupational therapy plans for very old and/or very disabled patients.
for myself personally, I would consider a disabled persons entirely datable so long as they were capable of living independently/managing their condition primarily on their own...... 1 reply
I don't really care who the other person is if they love me and treat me like I'm special.
So I don't really care if the person is disabled, I would shower them with alot of affection
But I'm afraid I might hurt them sometimes, say the person can't walk properly. I'd try to help them cuz I WORRY for them. They might think I'm PITYING them. This le...... reply
I work with someone that's disabled and he did ask me out but I turned him down. Mostly because I'm asexual and happy single but on a side note, it's because I don't want to babysit him 24/7. I know it isn't his fault he will forever have the mental state of a 8 year old but if I chose to date, it'd be with someone who is mature and can take care o...... 3 reply
Let's be honest, it depends on the disability. It is not the same someone who is good looking, has lost a leg and can use a prosthesis, than someone who is heavily disfigured and has difficulties moving and talking.
For example I have the feeling that it could be hard at first with a blind person, we are used to communicate by looking into each oth...... 1 reply
