hey, since, well, my grandma told the same thing, to get married and all
and I was like, oookaaay but first I want to sail into the world by myself and make myself happy because of ME.
I think, happiness is something should not depend on someone else, it's on US. We make US happy, and people have their own preference.
a lot of my friends wants to g...... reply
Don't rush. Do not rush. You are going to simply waste yourself and everything for someone who is young and stupid. Waste your first kiss, waste your first hug, first time holding hands, sometimes even first time for someone who is going to cheat on you or eventually leave you. Of course there are exception. My aunt married a man who she had been ...... reply
My sister is 7 years younger than me and is married since 2 years. People and family were
asking me, when I will get married. And things like "At your age, I had already my first
child". It was annoying.
But lately, the questions decreased. My mother is just joking every time I´m going out, I
should search for a son-in-law for her.
I also nev...... reply
If you ever feel uncomfortable at all, even if it's just hand-holding or something someone said, SPEAK THE FUCK UP.
Don't delude yourself into thinking "this is how relationships are" and "this is normal" because lemme tell you, you define the normal in your relationship. Set your boundaries and don't budge on them.
If the person gives a damn about...... reply
Today I told my grandma that one of my brothers is getting married soon (well, not really that soon but more likely 2 years from now). She snorted and told me it's not going to happen since he's not financially stable yet. But I told her that's his plan all along, be married at the age of 28. And then she asked me, what about me. I answered I don't have any plan on getting married or be in a relationship ever. Then she goes on and on about having a family is better. So what about you guys? What's your opinion about it?
P.S. It's true though, if there's one thing I don't want in this lifetime or my next lifetime (if ever it exists), it is that I don't want to get married or be in a relationship. I never thought of that not even once. Some of my friends had a bf/gf when I was still a student, but I never once felt that same longing. If there's something I want to do, it is to get a dog or dogs. Although having your own family seems great, it's just not for me, not interested, and will most likely make me miserable because it's something I don't want to do.
If you're gonna have sex, know how to use a condom/birth pills. Stay safe. When in doubt about a partner or yourself, get a STI/STD test done, ain't no shame in that. And of course, consent should ALWAYS be asked for. I'm talking FULL CONSCIOUS NON-DRUG/ALCOHOLIC influence decision making consent. Anything lower than that is not consent. reply
Be picky. I don't care how insecure you are, no one deserves someone who's shitty to them. I don't care if this advice makes you stay a virgin until you're 30, it's worth it. (Though I personally have no problem with meaningless sex, if it lines up with your values you can still be picky while also having a little fun along the way~) I think it's b...... reply
You never know how things will end up so don't worry about it. Go for that dream people say is dumb. Date that person and get your heart broken. Make money. Go broke. It's not worth worrying about things like getting married. You'll meet someone when you do. If you never meet someone you'll be fine. Get a pet. Go on a trip. Take chances. It's all g...... reply
My advice would be simple :- you can lie to the world about who you are and hide it from the world but never ever lie to yourself , don't deny or ignore who you truly are to yourself .. Because lie to yourself only will cause you pain and suffering without even realizing and will never feel satisfied by anything this world would offer you , emptine...... reply
A disabled or not person that have nothing to do when it comes to love , i am not disabled or such , all i was looking for to be understood beyond words , accepted all sides of who i am , trusted blindly and loved unconditionally the warm that feeling gives the security and such it never mattered to me if the person fall for me and fall for same wa...... reply
