not to sound like an ass but while i agree that fetishizing a certain type of people is just so weird and wrong, as long as they keep that to themselves rather than boast about it (like a lot of fujoshis in this site do), it would be less harmful. porn itself is the problem and lets be honest, most people who discover it are young so their minds ar...... 2 reply
i read yaoi out of curiosity and now im hooked. i dont fetishize though. i love romance and a bit of smut. i feel sorry for u guys ): i will try my best and stop reading these kind of things 2 reply
as a gay person i agree SO much, i hate how people are trying to justify the fetishization of the LGBTQ+ community with ¨well boys watch lesbian pornography, so we arent doing anything by reading/watching yaoi¨ like dude?? who said either one was okay?? i have seen countless fujos call IRL gay men ukes and semes?? i also have seen gay men express...... reply
There's also the group that tries and excuse it by saying they don't just read yaoi, they read yuri too. And they think they're exempt from critism because of it. Like, congrats. You're making two groups uncomfortable instead of one. reply
Honestly people will use any excuse to do something shitty... It’s actually disgusting, and then they claim that they can do it bc it isn’t fetishization, but how would they know what is fetishization and what’s not when their not even the ones being fetishized, smh... Srry for the run-on Sentence, my English teacher would not be proud. reply
for the love of god... please stop saying "guys watch lesbian porn and read yuri so its okay to watch gay porn and read yaoi" no body is stopping you from reading boys love, and both forms of fetishization are equally fucked up. As a lesbian i feel super grossed out when i think about men getting off to lesbian porn, it's super gross. I can only imagine how mlm/nblm feel so please stop excusing it like that omg
