You just summed up Asian parents in two lines gurl.The bare minimum that parents in other countries do is the rare minimum for most of the Asian parents 1 reply
Uhmm I don't know if i have a right to be angry and upset about my mom because she is very good at taking care of us. But it really makes me sad that she tells me to keep the fact that i was sexually harassed by my sister's husband. Its been years and it's hunting me cause they live beside our house. I can't even look at him. My sister knows it too...... 1 reply
the times someone did you wrong compared to when they did you right, you put those 2 on scale they'll cancel eachother out, leaving you with neither hatred nor affection, it is very common 1 reply
I love my mother for the numerous amount of things she has done for me but hate her bigoted views. The words she would say could cut like a knife and following that blindly is what made me spread that hate when I was younger. Appreciating, loving, and hating your parents are normal since they all have their flaws but it's the trauma that they unkno...... reply
my mother is a product what ppl like to call ‘the abused become the abuser’ i don’t like saying that because i don’t wanna be like her. she’s very controlling and likes to gaslight me. her favorite line is “i’m the bad guy right? you have everything, why are you crying like a baby? you aren’t privileged enough to be crying like that...... reply
I was just helpless baby when I was stolen from my real parents.
My real ID was stolen, my real name, real family, real life I should have...
Now I'm placed in fraud of life, fighting to regain everything what was forcefully taken and stolen from me.
Just recently I discovered that my so called "parents" are big fraud.
I'll find my real family one ...... reply
well..i love my dad, i mean apart from a few fights there and then i still know that he loves me. but my mom... she's traumatized me forever: physical abuse ever since i was a child, guilt tripping, manipulation (telling us she hits us because she loves us and that its a form of teaching) and anger issues (the reason why she is the way she is) howe...... 1 reply
I think it's normal to hate them, they are human too and as their children we face every one of their mistakes head on. Taking them for granted is normal too, you don't have to see reason in their every abusive action, and rationalize every hurtful word, which means you don't have to be grateful for every half decent thing they say or do either.
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I be chilling in my bed and my step mom gets angry and yells at me while my brother stays in MY bed the whole day and says nothing,the discrimination is unbelievable,blames everything on my phone,verbally abusive and finds excuses to beat me.I've tried making peace with her but its no use.My grandma and my neglective dad scolded her but it'll last ...... 2 reply
