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Okay, but does anyone else hate their parents, but at the same time feel like you don't? I don't like my parents, but I feel like I always take them for granted, especially when I was a teenager. IG it's normal?
You just summed up Asian parents in two lines gurl.The bare minimum that parents in other countries do is the rare minimum for most of the Asian parents 1 reply
the times someone did you wrong compared to when they did you right, you put those 2 on scale they'll cancel eachother out, leaving you with neither hatred nor affection, it is very common 1 reply
I love my mother for the numerous amount of things she has done for me but hate her bigoted views. The words she would say could cut like a knife and following that blindly is what made me spread that hate when I was younger. Appreciating, loving, and hating your parents are normal since they all have their flaws but it's the trauma that they unkno...... reply
I was just helpless baby when I was stolen from my real parents.
My real ID was stolen, my real name, real family, real life I should have...
Now I'm placed in fraud of life, fighting to regain everything what was forcefully taken and stolen from me.
Just recently I discovered that my so called "parents" are big fraud.
I'll find my real family one ...... reply
I get what you mean. I have boltic parents and they are a pain in the ass since they aren't from English speaking countrys and dont understand what is right and wrong, plus they always are in my business but honestly. If I was a parent, I might be like them. Sometimes your "I hate my parents!" Phase doesn't go away and sometimes it does it just dep...... 1 reply
It's okay to not like them just don’t hurt them in any way. You don’t have to do everything they say just keep it peaceful. I'm really happy the way my parents treat me but they are not perfect which sometime makes me dislike them but i dont show this to them. They can't be perfect just like i can't. I just don’t go and be a bitch about it. B...... 1 reply
I think it's normal to hate them, they are human too and as their children we face every one of their mistakes head on. Taking them for granted is normal too, you don't have to see reason in their every abusive action, and rationalize every hurtful word, which means you don't have to be grateful for every half decent thing they say or do either.
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them giving 'a roof on ur head' isnt justifiable to what unreasonable and trauma-worthy shit they do for a child bc providing is basically a bare minimum or ure js overreacting idk reply
I love my parent, but they definitely arent even near the word perfect. My mom has an issue of trauma dumping and victim mentality while my dad is short temper. Many times i feel tired because of it and not to mention their high expectation really is a heavy weight for me but nonetheless I love them. They got their issue but they do care so much fo...... 1 reply
