I love my parent, but they definitely arent even near the word perfect. My mom has an issue of trauma dumping and victim mentality while my dad is short temper. Many times i feel tired because of it and not to mention their high expectation really is a heavy weight for me but nonetheless I love them. They got their issue but they do care so much fo...... 1 reply
I love and hate them at the same time . It's a love hate relationship. They gave me both good memories and truama and trust issues.
I mean they are also human so it's kinda understandable. It's also their first time living and parenting. Well... Idk. They are bad and good at the same time reply
Yeah well its kinda love-hate relationship i think everyone had that stage where they dislike their parents? Esp when we're in teenage years lmao (im entering my early twenties rn) i had so many fights when i was 15-18 y'old with my mom and she sometimes cried when we're arguing and it will stab my conscience cuz i made my mom cried. In my case, my...... reply
def when i was in my adolescent years, i did hold resentment towards my mom but as i grew older, i realised what she did made sense and were for the better reply
the times someone did you wrong compared to when they did you right, you put those 2 on scale they'll cancel eachother out, leaving you with neither hatred nor affection, it is very common 1 reply
I think it's normal to hate them, they are human too and as their children we face every one of their mistakes head on. Taking them for granted is normal too, you don't have to see reason in their every abusive action, and rationalize every hurtful word, which means you don't have to be grateful for every half decent thing they say or do either.
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them giving 'a roof on ur head' isnt justifiable to what unreasonable and trauma-worthy shit they do for a child bc providing is basically a bare minimum or ure js overreacting idk reply
It's okay to not like them just don’t hurt them in any way. You don’t have to do everything they say just keep it peaceful. I'm really happy the way my parents treat me but they are not perfect which sometime makes me dislike them but i dont show this to them. They can't be perfect just like i can't. I just don’t go and be a bitch about it. B...... 1 reply
You just summed up Asian parents in two lines gurl.The bare minimum that parents in other countries do is the rare minimum for most of the Asian parents 1 reply
