so like-sex. um...i am so disgusted by myself that everytime I try to do something sexual i look in the mirror later and feel like vomiting. is this normal? like I can't talk to my brother bout this. or my parents. i fucking hate to say this, but yall are my last resort.
Yo! Demisexual Biromantic.
I can’t speak for actual gay men as to how they feel affected by BL, but I do know that there is a lot of toxic shit permeated throughout the genre. As far as I’m concerned, good porn is good porn, regardless of the gender(s) involved. But the rape tropes and the toxic relationships do get super old. I’m not sure t...... reply
I'm a demi/pan human (conflicted about my gender rn, born woman), and I think BL helped me to feel more at ease with myself. I also helped me to realise I'm not into straight smut (is it called smut for the straights too lmao?) and that I'm demisexual. I really like reading BL because I think straight couples in the media are just boring and plain,...... reply
Mmm I gues I was just really chill with it. When I changed schools a new world opened to me. My last one was extremely religious and I vaguely knew about gays and lesbians. When I started to make friends in my new environment, I noticed all girls were incredibly cute ╮(￣▽￣)╭ and I was also introduced to yaoi, shipping and that kind of st...... reply
I was talking about my gay friend with my mom while she was driving and I thought "well it's now or never", so we started talking about how most men are stupid (lol) and I said "yeah that's why I don't really like them, women are better" and she was "eH¿", so I explained how I discovered I was demisexual and it's meaning. Then she said "lol then I...... reply
I’m still in the questioning phase, but I came out to my mom as non binary and attracted to women (now there are some changes but currently very accurate). On the faithful June 7th of 2019 I wrote my mom a seven pages letter discussing my sexuality along with my gender and religious identity. I didn’t get such a warm reaction. She cried because...... 2 reply
i guess im kind of in the same situation here, but the thing is that i have absolutely no clue what to do
i sometimes imagine being all lovey dovey with her, but other times i imagine the same thing with a guy （/TДT)/
i later realised that the reason i was attracted to them both was due to their personality, as i have not felt such emotions wit...... 1 reply
Lol im in an similar situation rn just the difference is my best friend is asexual(pray for me guys) but yeah since you like her there isnt anything to lose if you tell her about your feelings because its highly unlikely that you will lose your friendship with her, maybe she will say yes! Also heres some things that indicate that you have feelings ...... 1 reply
I simply told my family that I had came out just a bit gayer than expected. My mom was completely supportive seeing as she's a bisexual herself. My dad on the other hand threw a bit of a tantrum. All of my friends were totally fine with it because almost all of them are gay or trans or just super cool people in general. I was actually super lucky. ...... reply
My experience was very bad. I came to 2 of my friends. Even though I explicitly told them not to tell anyone, one of them told a lot of people who then told a lot of people. It sucked. I was outed and basically the whole school knew. Thankfully I moved to another country. (By coincidence btw). No one in my family knows. I'd like it to stay that way...... reply
