Amab bigender+agender, gay for all genders, autochorissexual.
Personally I love bl + gl, though I'm picky about bl because most of it is terrible. Even though I love bl, I think it's pretty harmful because of its fanbase. It misrepresents the queer community and normalizes noncon, and this makes the straight women who read it think that that's ho...... 2 reply
Well.. you kind of sound like you were interrogating them as if they were some out of world creature, which, isn't.. respectful.
But basically you just want to know how lesbians have sex in general?
Most of the times it's through oral sex, some fingering and if you want, toys. Most girls don't use it though.
It's like when straight people have se...... 2 reply
i realized i was bi in 8th grade. i remember my best friend leaning her head on my shoulder during lunch one day, and then something in me just kind of clicked. it was really hard for me. looking back on it now, i think i liked girls before then, but i was just repressing it. internalized homophobia really screws you up. in any case, like i said, f...... 2 reply
bi girl here. i've been out since 8th grade, when i came out to my mom. that's when i figured out i liked girls, but i'm pretty sure i'd been suppressing it for longer than that. i couldn't say it out loud bc i was crying so hard so i wrote it on a post it note. i don't remember how i came out to my dad but it was pretty soon after. they were both ...... reply
okay, you sound young, so i'm not going to fault you for it. but it's really invasive of you to ask your friends questions about their sex lives completely unwarranted. would you do the same for a straight person? yaoi and yuri are extremely unrealistic, and you shouldn't turn to it for a depiction of the sex life of lgbt individuals. yaoi/yuri is ...... reply
I found out I was bi back when I fell in love with my first boyfriend I guess? I have been a lesbian for as long as I remember, but I kept on falling for straight girls, so things never worked out.
Then BAM! Met a guy and fell head over heels for him... Took me a really small amount of time to accept it tbh, I was flabbergasted at it at first, but...... 1 reply
Mine was pretty bothersome tbh (for the record, I'm MtF trans, but I wasn't aware of it back then), me and my boyfriend broke up back when I was 20, and I was so emotionally devastated that I could only stay home crying every day and could no longer leave my house to go to university.
After staying some 2 months like that I lost the uni semester a...... reply
(Bi) Never really had a big coming out moment since I've never felt the need to do so. With my sisters it has always been a casual speculation conversation, and they like girls as well anyways. Same with one of my friends, I was just casually speculating with her and she didn't bat an eyelid. With my mom it happened when we were talking about my si...... 1 reply
I first came out to a friend, a few weeks before I signed up to a forum and talked for the first time about my homosexuality. Reading about others and writing about it helped me, one day I wrote that I would come out to one of my friend and in my mind that was an impossible thing to do but since I wrote it I don't know I did it...
The first one wa...... reply
I more or less accepted it when I was 13 when I met people who were ok with it. And I already added this to another question so heres my coming out: I did it while my mom and I were bashing my math teacher(he was kind of a jerk)and calling him things including "gay" and I was all "you know me and him r the same kind, right?" She took it like a she ...... 3 reply
