If youre over 25 then by all means, if not i do NOT suggest it at all️ A generational gap like that when your prefrontal cortex isnt fully developed is a bad idea and frankly predatory, if the other party pursues you as well. 100% no if youre under 20, not even something to consider. reply
My bf is like 10? years older than me and its big vibes. There is no weird power imbalance and im fully independent, ive been living by myself for many years and in a good place in my career even when I met him.
For such a huge age gap i do want to say to be VERY careful, just like any relationship what is important is whether hes a decent person...... reply
It's hot to think about in theory but in practice if the older guy is willing to date someone so young he is definitely predatory and will take advantage of your innocence. So stay safe out there 1 reply
imo If ur still in ur early 20s or less definitely not, as shitty as it sounds, dating someone with a significant age gap when ur a young adult will just end up in a unhealthy and power imbalance relationship reply
honestly to me, if they are older i ain complainin - like, age dont matter (not minors obviously ) just as long as its mutual respect and you genuinely have a thing for them - go for it girl reply
Depends on how old you are, if you are like 20. Probably not, take your time to finish school, get stable and understand what you want in life. But honestly, if you think he will treat you right than go for it gurl! 1 reply
Currently crushing HARD on a guy 20 years older than me. Should I pursue it if I have the chance or let it go? Also have any of you dated WAY older ppl before?