It's appealing to me, but its also terrifying. Im pretty much attachment issues r us so while i really want to fall in love, i don't even know if it's possible for me. It's scary as fuck. Letting someone know you to such a point is risky, the closer they are the better and worse they can make you feel. 1 reply
I'm in a bit of a pickle. I dated a guy around two years ago and I was pretty young. We dated for a few months but unfortunately we went through a very bad and embarrassing breakup. Now that I've matured and thought about my past I started to regret what I did to him and I've been really missing him. I moved this year to a different country but I still wanna text him and talk to him. I also haven't felt feeling for another person since him. WHAT SHOULD I DO??
Sometimes when you find someone and start dating at a young age you will end up with two possible way. 1. You end up marrying them and spend your life with them forever. 2. You break up with them and your life start going down but then you realize you deserve better than them and make a new start. Or just don't date and be single enjoy your life ju...... reply
"Don't. You might think they're the one. You might think that it's meant to be, that it's fate. But do they think the same? There is a large, very large actually, difference between falling in love and having affection. If you can't see yourself accepting that person completely, going through ups and downs, getting into fights but still being there...... reply
At first i was like he need to have a great bod, then a smart mind, then he should be respectful and kind and possibly rich, i met all this qualifications in one guy and i was so happy i met him we dated about two months and was really considering a long term relationship with him but one night things got steamy and u know a bad btch like me gonna...... 2 reply
compatibility > feelings !! especially in the long term (learned this the hard way LOL) Pay attention to your love languages and be wary of red flags, problems you ignore at the beginning are just gonna bite your ass big time later on i swear. Also please please dont project your traumas onto your partner! A lot of toxic behavior in relationships s...... 2 reply
You could say that..
I've been in love once about 11 years ago (I'm 27 now... wow that made me realize time really flies haha) and after this 4-year long relationship it took me some years to recover.
Since then I thought building up a relationship is a pain in the ass and lost Interest in love and things like that. I've never had much interest in ...... 1 reply
I’ll put the important parts in { } since this is long lolol.
I FEEL THE TWO PERSONALITY TRAITS/MOODS SO HARD IT HURTS LMAO.
At one point I realized my standards are too high and specific in comparison to who I am (average looks, + a bit manipulative + aggressive personality) for me to find someone. Occasionally I think that EVEN IF I DID ...... reply
