Go with a type of shape and material you like!
I design clothes, and I'm sure you can find something you are confortable in that fits your tastes.
Try to go with a fitting color/pattern/fabric that you like to attract more attention on the cloth itself than 'you in a dress', or to highlights some part of your body.
You can also go with a more ample...... 1 reply
So besides the fact that yet another non-mlm person is trying to "educate" people on what is and isn't fetishizing gay people, because what else would happen on this site except y'all's favorite past time of speaking for gay people...
You literally opened with "reading bl isn't fetishzing" and then listed multiple reasons why someone can fetishize...... reply