it honestly just comes down to the person if they know how to have an open-mind and differentiate fictional situations to real life. i have no problem reading problematic stuff, i read what i wanna read and i dont give a fuck if ppl judge me for it lol
bc like how yall are tired w "itS jUst fIctIoN" im also tired w ppl who will immediately think u...... 3 reply
(edit: I mainly talked about unnecessary rape that doesn't add anything to the plot and just plain lazy writing and it really does just boils down to opinions since it is a fiction and none were harmed. in reality tho rape is rape and ur fantasies should be just fantasies and should be healthily expressed)
rape is rape even in fiction nobody may b...... 1 reply
I'm honestly tired of people getting pressed over someone criticizing an author's work about some flaws that could've been better, everyone is entitled with their opinion whether they like it or not.
+People saying "It'S jUSt fIctiOn"
Anyways, I also absolutely would love to hear about other people's opinion about this. Please stay respectful! ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
I don't even feel comfortable calling fictional characters that to be honest.. It seems super fetishy. I tend to refer to myself as a fan of BL, as a genre. People in real life should not be involved in your own personal hobbies, it's creepy and can make them feel like they're just an object of your desire.
Please, unless they specifically say th...... reply
Idk, man. But for me and my boyfriend it's an awkward question because people tend to think that uke=the girl and seme=the boy in the relationship. Like, stop imposing your heteroshit on us homos, dude. reply
I think you have a point but I just wanted to say that liking KS and finding toxic relationship hot are not necessarily linked.
In my opinion, KS was interesting because of the psychological aspect. I don't find rape hot and I don't support BumxSangwoo. In my case, I don't think the gender of the victim had anything to do about it. But if anyone c...... 1 reply
I think it's bad because it's used to describe fictional characters in Yaoi. And yaoi convey a lot of stereotypes. Gay people irl don't wanna be associated with something that reductive. Like you reduce them to their position in bed in their relationship and that's kinda offensive. reply
Yes it is, how would you feel if someone asked your position during sex? Plus "uke/seme" specifically, is used for fictional characters only so it's dehumanising as well. (Specially since LGBTQ+ are a minority and have been discriminated against cause of their sexuality) It's REALLY BAD and please don't. reply
