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So I've been wondering is calling someone (irl) an uke or a seme that bad? I know a lot of people are against labeling (role?) as everyone can do whatever they want but IS IT THAT BAD?
I'm not particular against it but I wouldn't ask about it either...just a very weird question to ask (for me)
I think it's bad because it's used to describe fictional characters in Yaoi. And yaoi convey a lot of stereotypes. Gay people irl don't wanna be associated with something that reductive. Like you reduce them to their position in bed in their relationship and that's kinda offensive. reply
