Yo, I'm a gay dude who has been into BL for just a few months and just wanna say to everyone disagreeing.. You're most likely mad because you're the exact description of what the creator of this post said. You aren't allowed to speak for gay men if you aren't a gay man. If mlm say that you're fetishizing then you are fetishizing and have no right t...... 4 reply
i dont get why people are disagreeing,, nowhere in this does op claim every cis woman who reads bl is fetishizing. these are all legit points. there is no other reason to think a cis women wld consume mostly bl but hate yuri than this. instead of getting defensive for being called out, accept the criticism, think about why you do these things, and ...... 3 reply
Honestly I completely agree. Anyone and I mean anyone who knowingly calls themselves a fujoshi are disgusting and most likely will do all that you've listed whether they realize or not. When I first discovered yaoi ill admit I use to call myself a fujoshi and I unknowingly did all the above which is fking disgusting and it wasn't until I educated...... reply
As much as i hate to admit, i used to be one of the “bad fujoshis” i now realized how fucking cringe how i was, i still read BL stuff but only the slice of life and the ones where they have a good relationship, i only do it because i enjoy the category, everyone has their own fetishes and i think it’s fine as long as they keep it to themselve...... 1 reply
yuri art tends to be much cuter than bl, but theyre usually lacking in plot. dont get me wrong, i love a good cliche, but it mainly tsundere/dandere bottom, with some sort of cool top. it is with bl too, but its just not the same i guess? buildup and stuff matters.
also, im a straight guy who likes bl... so... uh do i count? 1 reply
I completely agree with you on all your arguments. Those are very true, even more on this hell of a website but there's a few things you should consider.
As i've come to learn, many users on this website are underage. Its not an excuse to do anything wrong but as you may know underage teens tend to be really stupid and horny in horrible way. I say ...... 1 reply
