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fujoshis are bad.
cis women are inherently mlm fetishizers, if you read BL, me a mlm has every right to think that you probably fetishize gay men or romanticize rape in m/m pairings
here are some red flags from a gay man who has been around the bl fandom for a year now.
- women on mangago who only read BL, or read BL more than 50% of the time.
- Women who use BL as a way to escape the male 'gaze' a lot of times they tend to project toxic behaviours in m/m pairings because it's okay since there is no woman in here, so they don't see themselves in the story
- straight women who say they hate yuri/gl
- cis women who wants me to be their gaybies/ask me personal questions ( top or bottom'
- women who use the ' nosebleed yaoi ' meme
- women who complain about a YURI/gl being written by a man, and then in the same breath loves BL/YAOI written by women.
- women who use the 'i'm lgbtq card' as a way to get away with fetishization.
I want to add that there is nothing wrong with being a women and read BL, and there is nothing wrong with being a man that read GL, just saying before you guys put me on twitter 4 reply
My god people who say they hate gl but then love everything that has to do with bl piss me off. I swear I’m this close to fighting someone. I agree with your post btw.
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Agree with the fujoshi part. But uuuh, did you just insinuate that every cis women are fetishizing gay people? And that they claim to be LGBT to get away with it? That's very weird my dude... 1 reply
I'm a gay and i don't give a shit if women read bl as long as they treat us like real ppl i don't give a shit and i don't think women who read bl are,t "inherently fetishizing"
i love bl and all my favorite stories are written by women, i feel like my experiences as a gay man have resonated more with bl than anything else. unpopular opinion but i a...... 4 reply
i agree. to be fair i read bl more than 50% of the time on this site, i'll admit it. i dont even know why? im bi with a strong preference for women, and yet i read more bl than gl. something to ponder over, i suppose.
i should make it clear that i do read gl, however. apparently its something i need to make clear before im accused of fetishizing 4 reply
Hmm.... I don't see the 1:1 correlation between being a fujo and fetishizing gay men. I see your points and I think they're valid; I ticked off a lot of these boxes myself. That being said, I have ZERO interest in *fetishizing* gay men -men, period, for that matter- in real life. I keep my 2D otaku fantasies and 3D reality completely separate. The ...... 2 reply
I have to disagree with the first one. If you like yaoi, chances are you're reading mostly yaoi. I like books/manga in general, i did not start with yaoi, but once I discovered it I would say that over 95% of what I've read since then is yaoi/shounen ai. I cant tell you why I love the genre. genuinely, I cannot. I don't get off to it, I don't watch...... 1 reply
dont care didnt ask my g theres bigger problems in the world and you guys choose to focus on this, this is a prime example of why twitter needs to be eradicated from this earth
and the title "fuJosHis aRe bAd" you gonna cry?
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