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fujoshis are bad.
cis women are inherently mlm fetishizers, if you read BL, me a mlm has every right to think that you probably fetishize gay men or romanticize rape in m/m pairings
here are some red flags from a gay man who has been around the bl fandom for a year now.
- women on mangago who only read BL, or read BL more than 50% of the time.
- Women who use BL as a way to escape the male 'gaze' a lot of times they tend to project toxic behaviours in m/m pairings because it's okay since there is no woman in here, so they don't see themselves in the story
- straight women who say they hate yuri/gl
- cis women who wants me to be their gaybies/ask me personal questions ( top or bottom'
- women who use the ' nosebleed yaoi ' meme
- women who complain about a YURI/gl being written by a man, and then in the same breath loves BL/YAOI written by women.
- women who use the 'i'm lgbtq card' as a way to get away with fetishization.
I'm a gay and i don't give a shit if women read bl as long as they treat us like real ppl i don't give a shit and i don't think women who read bl are,t "inherently fetishizing"
i love bl and all my favorite stories are written by women, i feel like my experiences as a gay man have resonated more with bl than anything else. unpopular opinion but i a...... 4 reply
