Woah that's a great question Starfall. Hmm so I think people who are ok with the seme/uke getting raped by the other seme/uke and not anyone else because they automatically think the people who end up together are seen as good and anyone else who intervenes is bad which to me is completely wrong, there are also people who are a bit superficial let'...... reply
Cause honestly there is no need to get so worked up in fictional stories. They are meant to entertain and evoke emotions, different people and different preferences. AND DIFFERENT FANTASIES.
As long as you don't violate or step outside the boundaries of what considered moral in the outside world it would be alright.
And you also know, what you dis...... reply
As long as we keep that same energy in all aspects on how we feel about rape (like it or not) I don't care. Stand on all ten toes. You like rape? Like all versions of it. If the Seme attacks the Uke and you like it, don't get pissy when the "best friend" decides he wants a threesome.
Straight man rapes a woman? Or Woman rapes a man. Don't go all "...... reply
is it weird i kind of agree with all the answers whether they are favouring the question or not, but I'd like to say at the end of the day it's a "trope" which people like to read doesn't necessarily means they condone it. reply
As a queer person and rape victim, it really doesn't surprise me how often rape shows up in yaoi. I've been reading it for years now and it still disgusts me. People like to justify their fetishes by distancing themselves from it. It's "fiction". I see a lot of so-called psychologists in the comment section. I'm in university for psychology as well...... 10 reply
Do you condone murder just because you like watching psycho-killer movies?
People aren't just black or white, yes or no. There's always an OR. So it depends on the story and the reaction will be totally different if it's a real life situation. Unless the person is insane, I don't think people will be giving that a free pass nor will be imitating it...... 1 reply
I think the reason we see it a lot in yaoi is because, in Japan at least, there is a historical context of rape being deemed a romantic gesture. He was so overcome by her beauty that he had to have her, and so on and so forth. If you do a search online you can find some interesting articles on it.
It's also why mangas have that trope where the l...... 2 reply
I think there are a few things to consider?
I think, as a fictional trope, rape sometimes allows the reader to feel in-control of a situation that, normally, IRL, would be horrifying and out of their control. If that makes sense. And I think that's why some rape fantasy in fiction tends toward that.
That being said, though, I think there should b...... 1 reply
Rape isn’t the solution to your lack of imagination, authors usually use rape as a tool to make a faster development (between the two main characters or not) it becomes sex (if between the two main characters) and then as the story goes on the rape is dismissed. No. I have nothing against dark themes if well written but a lot of yaois authors (or...... reply