Honestly I find sex sexy (depending on how it's depicted). Gay, straight, lesbian, orgy. I'm here for all of it. I grew up reading strictly hetero shit then dove into BL waters in only the last year, so I've been reading mostly BL manga at least. I don't think there's anything wrong with being aroused by sex of any nature. But I hope all people tak...... 1 reply
bro most yaoi is written by straight women tho,then wouldn;t all the mangas in themself be considered fetishization? lol. well i cant speak for everyone in the lgbt community but i cant really see how a straight woman being turned on by fictional works portraying two men together in a sexual situation is any different from straight guys being into ...... reply
ignoring the man masturbating in the corner of MY FUCKING EYE- i dont want to see your face again. It was the hair on top of his head for meeeeeeee 1 reply
I think as long as you can separate fiction from real life it’s fine. Like don’t read it and expect every guy out there to be gay all of a sudden. It’s just a work of fiction and the characters are usually pretty hot and the story lines are pretty interesting. Same thing goes for gl. Doesn’t matter who you are, just respect that it is ficti...... 2 reply
isnt fetishizing: (im not gonna list a lot im just putting 3)
- calling gay men "uke" "seme"
- shipping real people
- obsessed with gay men
and this is not fetishizing:
- reading bl because they like the genre or basically enjoy it
thats all i can think of LMAAOO 2 reply
Speaking as a gay man... it's not. It's a fictional setting with characters that really only vaguely resemble real life LGBT experiences.
I think the only way you get into fetishizing is if a fan (could be anyone tbh, cis straight girl or not) somehow super imposed this desire to see gay men with each other in real life despite the people in ques...... 1 reply
