Why does it sound like someone wants to make you believe that sex with condom is no sex, so he/she gets a free ride to fuck around or fuck you without consent (as in "we didn't really have sex because I put a condom on it" -tale).
Seriously, it's not difficult to know what sex is, but just to make sure. Putting a condom on a willy doesn't reverse ...... reply
Nope! Not Weird At All. Esp If You're In Your Teen Years. It May Seem Like Everyone Is Sex-Crazed, But Really It's Exaggerated/Overcompensating. Most People Are Like You Or Are Exploring Themselves. Plus, Asexuality Exists! Maybe Have A Search Around Of That And See If It Fits For You. But Sexuality Is Fluid, So You Don't Need To Push Yourself Into...... 1 reply
This sounds like a guy trying to justify that he didn't have sex when he did. Potentially in a foreign country were homosexuality could get you killed. reply
I dated for years without having s*x myself. I've only done it with my now husband. It is entirely possible. Don't worry; if people really care about you they'll respect your wishes and values. 1 reply
What you're describing sounds more like a disgust with hook up culture, and the obsession with sex that often comes with puberty with many people (and for some people never leaves...) This is a healthy (though uncommon) mindset to approach, as it'll keep you from a lot of heartache in the future. Sex often creates an emotional bond in the brain, ...... reply
Nah, its not strange. I too, don't want to have sex nor be in a relationship with somebody. It's normal. If somebody say's to you that it ain't normal. Let them be—you don't have to listen to them. reply
damn im sorry you had to come across men like that, i want you to know that sex is not an important part of life, honestly if you dont want to have sex then you dont, never let anyone else force you into it reply
