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I have a happy crush on this boy since august 2023 and he's my classmate so it's hard to uncrush him.

But this december he confessed that he likes me and started to noticed me so i confessed too.

I really like him because i think he's kind and he take class seriously which is my type, but the thing that i hate in our set up is he doesn't want others to knows that we like each other or that there's something going on between us.

I guess it's because we said that we'll know each other first before actually try to be in relationship with each other. But sometimes i feel like he doesn't like me at all, i need to message him firat so we'll talk. we'll never talk again if i'll never message him first.

Am i the wrong here making him uncomfortable? because i keep reminding him that i like him and he doesn't even say it back? what should i do :(

Hii so I’m just wondering if anyone else was having the issue of voices cutting in and out while on call?

I was losing my mind because these random snippets of conversations would just come on during the call (weirdly enough it was only when I entered a Roblox game of Uno, no other Roblox game had this issue) and I was the only one to hear it. I thought my friends were joking but it was clear they were not and it was the most bizarre thing because I felt like I was in elementary school again.

I would often experience moments like that where I would hear my name be called in the dead of night and see people standing over me while I slept, and I know that that’s just because the mind doesn’t develop well enough until the age of 5 to distinguish reality for fantasy, but god I hate the feeling of being delusional.

Some of the conversations in my call were along the lines of:

“Lincoln’s presidency played an important factor in 1961. . .”

“Should we play fortnite or Call of Duty?”

“I’m not going to kiss her on the mouth, y’know?”

“Damn Mark is so bad at Fortnite I’m basically carrying his ass.”

And so on and it was so weird.

I looked it up and it seems that other people were having the issue as well, but it seemed mutual for the whole call, while for me, it was me solely. Before I googled it I went to the bathroom to brush my teeth and I guess I have paranoia since I have such an irrational fear of intruders (not trauma or anything I’ve just always had it since I was an infant of toddler) and I just sat in the bathroom for 30 minutes contemplating opening the door. And then I spent another 10 checking my room multiple times and ughh I hate the feeling and it would put me at ease if someone else could also relate. It’s like 3:45 right now so I kinda would like some reassurance before I have to turn off the lights.

Anyways I was just wondering if anyone was having this problem since this is the first time using the “new” discord and I’ve never had issues beforehand. This also honestly seems like a huge security issue for discord, because other people should not be able to intercept private calls.