Nah I get it cuz I’m no longer a high schooler but back in HS I was like this.
When I crushed on guys it was often this sort of infatuation and I didn’t know them at all. I was crushing on the ~fantasy~ or the IDEA of them and who I thought they could be. And tbh the whole thing took a mental toll on me too. Looking back I am embarrassed ove...... 1 reply
Not to crush on a person that's attractive
[Question]
02 10,2023
How do I not start crushing on a person in the same school I'm at?
They're very attractive and we've talked like once or twice last year, I don't think they even remember me...That's why I'm going to call it infatuation cause it's mostly their looks that I'm attracted to. We're not in the same class and I don't think they'd approach me since we only have two things in common which is watching a certain anime and being the same age....
I really want tips for how not to start crushing on them again I really can't afford the mental toll it'll take on me, and neither the mental gymnastics I have to do for me to explain why looking for them wherever I go and trying to grab their attention is definitely me not liking them ignoring the obvious answer and the nice feeling I used to get when thinking of them. Sorry I wrote alot and possibly even rambled because I can't tell anyone any of this.
They're very attractive and we've talked like once or twice last year, I don't think they even remember me...That's why I'm going to call it infatuation cause it's mostly their looks that I'm attracted to. We're not in the same class and I don't think they'd approach me since we only have two things in common which is watching a certain anime and being the same age....
I really want tips for how not to start crushing on them again I really can't afford the mental toll it'll take on me, and neither the mental gymnastics I have to do for me to explain why looking for them wherever I go and trying to grab their attention is definitely me not liking them ignoring the obvious answer and the nice feeling I used to get when thinking of them. Sorry I wrote alot and possibly even rambled because I can't tell anyone any of this.
